Lets say partner A wants sex.
Partner B wants romance.
Can or should the fullfilling of these wants be exchanged for each other?
It seems that many people frustrate their spouse by implying that they will participate in this sort of exchange of services, but when it comes to pay their debt they back out of the deal.
Its kind of funny when you apply the same sort of business principals to marrital problems the answer just appears. My wife is on Pre-Pay terms with me due to her bad sexual credit and some how I'm happier. So what are you thoughts?
2007-05-22 08:05:29 · 2 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DEEP THOUGHT: pre-pay does not stop "give and take" in a realtionship it only regulates it. As for fear your fears of her going else where do you also have trust issues?
2007-05-22 08:59:16 · update #1
JDOGMAN38: Romance is defined by the individual. If and when I choose to attempt to meet her expectations of romance that in itself is the gift, but anyone who simply gives blindly is foolish. Do you write the Government a blank check on tax day?
2007-05-22 09:04:18 · update #2
I find it very interesting that no women replied to this question.
2007-05-23 04:26:10 · update #3
Dude, I would think your wife wouldn't want to be romanced by you knowing you're just doing it for more sex. And if you're just in it for the sex, why not let her go to find someone who's into the romance like she is while you are free to sample the wares without commitment?
2007-05-22 08:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's got to be give and take in a marriage. If you're not giving, you shouldn't be taking. That being said, putting you wife on pre pay terms could backfire on you, if she starts looking for other suppliers...
2007-05-22 15:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋