Don't complain when they start meeting women online, viewing lots of porn and having NSA sex on the side. You get what you get for neglecting your man.
2007-05-22 07:06:40 · 23 answers · asked by Charpentier 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seriously...GROW UP...Dont copmplain? Is it right to withhold sex? No. Is it worse to step out on your marriage? Um YES. There are many things that can be done on your own rather than be that guy...come on.
2007-05-22 07:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who says that any of us "cut off" our man? Some men do that whether they get some once a month, once a week, or everyday. Sometimes women feel that, sex is the only thing that they have as a weapon against a man to get their way. Its a really messed up deal most of the time.
2007-05-22 14:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so don't complain when she bitches at you to take a freaking shower. Ever heard of Rogaine? Stop being such a wussy. And yes size does matter! Mabye you were weaned too early and still need your mommy. Internet porn is probably all you'll get. Most likely you gross out strangers as much as you disgust your wife!
2007-05-22 14:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by lae_ed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! It is so darned rare to find someone who is actually stuck in the middle ages!! Don't know what you do for a living but there are some museums looking for someone just like you.
Hate to break it to you but marriages are not made up of a woman meeting "her man's" physical needs. Marriages work when both parties work to meet each other's emotional and physical needs.
If you want to be a real man you will have the male equipment it takes to end the relationship if you feel the need to cheat on your spouse.
2007-05-22 14:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by toff 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
one might argue that a woman who is neglected emotionally
will not feel like having sex with her respective spouse/partner
so when that spouse/partner doesnt get some from his emotionally neglected spouse/partner....the man seeks sex which leads to an emotional relationship outside of the original one
the woman seeks emotional companionship which might also lead to a physical encounter and relationship
thats what happens? where does it end? one says you neglect me so i will neglect you and so on...and so forth.
and then...divorce, separation, whatever
it's best to find out 'why' the couple is neglecting one another, find a solution inside the original relationship and fix it before something like what you describes happens.
if one or the other is unyeilding, unwilling to communicate...then not much you can do but divorce or in your case you claim you will show her! eh?
2007-05-22 14:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best data I've seen suggests that 1 in 5 couples have sex less then once a month.
If you're cutting off your partner because of something they are doing or not doing, it is encumbent upon you to tell them what it is that they need to do to help you through it, or figure something out on your own.
Its unreasonable to demand that your partner be celibate in the long term.
For you women who do NOT cut off your husbands - and that's the majority of you - don't assume that people who are being cut off are clearly jerks. From what I've seen, the men (and some women) who are cut off are generally jumping through hoops trying to please their partners. The jerks - male and female - seem pretty good at finding submissive partners who will do what they demand. Its the nice guys, and probably nice women, who get stuck with a partner who ignores their needs and end up desparately trying to please them.
2007-05-22 15:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a pig and seriously make men look bad. I think you deserve to be without a wife or even a mistress I hope you get some sort of STD so you can see how sad and pathetic you are. Only guys that have no care or respect for there mate would do such a thing that must be you!
2007-05-22 14:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your wife is cutting you off, then she probably feels cut off from you emotionally. Do listen to her when she talks? I mean really listen and not invalidate her feelings or try to solve her problems? If she is upset, do you take it personally and get mad at her? If you're wife is cutting you off, then it is YOU that is doing something wrong. Put the ego aside for a while and really listen to her. We don't neglect men who make us feel cared for. If you can quietly sit there, give her your FULL attention, let her rant out her feelings, and give her a comforting hug after wards, I'll bet you'll get a treat.
2007-05-22 15:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rae Ray 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are other ways to solving problems besides cheating. If you go to cheating first its because you want to cheat not because your wife is neglecting you. Always try talking to your partner about it. Marriage is hard work and if your willing to throw it away for sex then maybe you shouldn't be married.
2007-05-22 14:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you get what you get for putting it in anything that walks and not staying faithful to your wife! I hope your little thing falls off from some nasty STD, After all thats probably why you dont get it anyway, cuz its the size of a vienna sausage!
2007-05-22 14:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by brandeddesire 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋