Why must my life be so crappy?
Not good hairline
5'9"
skinny and small frame
Why are some people born blessed with good looks and perceived well while others get shoved aside?
2007-05-22 05:35:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
So, you're upset because you're average height, skinny, and don't like your hairline? That's just pathetic.
If you don't want to be "shoved aside," learn to stand up for yourself. It's not the responsibility of other people to feed your ego - that's your job, and you don't seem to be doing it at all.
(Hairline - yeesh!)
2007-05-22 05:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you not think yer blessed? Stop whining and wake up and make today a NEW day! You have the power to change anything you want. How about the guy whos 350 lbs. trying so hard to lose weight? He would love to have your frame! What about a real hairy guy? Looks arent everything.....ever been to a senior home? You'll understand that in the end all you have is your personality. So work it dude.
Get some clothes that make you feel good and walk in a room like you own the place. Get a good education, have a wonderful career and get some confidence! Dont be ridiculous you are sooo blessed. Sad that you cant see it. Maybe this will help :)
Cheers
2007-05-22 05:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by lane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were born blessed, you just choose not to see the blessings, rather than work with the flaws you think you have. What you resist , persists ie crappy life . You choose to see it as crappy so it's not God who's making you unhappy it's you and your choices.
Are you disabled in some way? Do you have a job? Do you have a home? Friends? Some money? Do you live in a country where they point a gun at you if you don't agree with the prevailing political opinion or you aren't the right race or religion?
Receding hairline, try rogaine. Skinny frame , do you know how many people would love to have a skinny frame ? Five feet nine, my dad was five nine , he modelled in his later years and was considered a gentleman.
You need seriously to work on your lack of self -esteem and start working on gratitude for what you DO have , rather than what you don't.
2007-05-22 06:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a classic question asks how come the other lane is always faster than the one you're in. i read somewhere that it's because you notice it negatively.
i dont want to sound like a self-righteous person here. i do have my days. but someone always brings me back to my senses and tells me i'm special, i am loved. and probably it's proper to help you out.
the fact that you're alive means that you're blessed. let's go biological here. out of the how many little sp#rms your dad gave your mom, yours was the one that's successful to fertilize. that alone proves that you're a winner.
also, you have reached this far. you could have died during birth, or when you were a kid, or when you were part of a riot, or something. waking up everyday is an assurance that you are blessed.
you were given that kind of body for good reasons. He gave you that body because He knows you could do wonders with it. so, workout. eat healthy. better yet, flaunt it. nothing's wrong with you.
people get shoved aside because they allow such. even goodlooking people sometimes get shoved aside, btw. confidence is key. a confident, average looking person stands out more than a dull goddess.
so why mope around? love yourself. believe in yourself. soon after others will realize just how special you are. good luck!
2007-05-22 05:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by pritiyves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not like it can't be helped. If you work out and build muscle you will get better body. Hair line.... go see a hair dresser. You may have been made this way but you keep your self this way. I use to be so ugly. I got made fun of in school people would pull my hair and invite me to the school dances and then when I got there laugh and say you really thought I was serious! I had rumors about that I stunk and had lice which wasn't true. I was short and didn't have the best hair. I didn't have the best cloths. Well one summer that all changed! i worked out, i got a job to by nice cloths, i got my hair done and worked on my attitude so that i wouldn't put up with it any more. Now I look great and feel great!
2007-05-22 05:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good looks are definitely not the ticket to a good life. Plus, I'm sure that you're attractive to many people. Everyone has their insecurities and they are rarely as bad as people think they are. Even if you aren't exactly Prince Charming, you are probably a great person and that counts for so much more. And those traits don't wrinkle and fade as time goes on. You are blessed to have those.
2007-05-22 05:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by blzr20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lament what you dont have. life isnt fair, it never was. what of those that have no legs, no faces, that see their loved ones consumed by illness. you are blessed that you can be an example for others that feel like you do. do you believe good looking people are happy? read the news. for those shoved aside bring them close to you. be a good person and looks will be secondary
2007-05-22 05:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by lonestar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if you are healthy, you were born blessed! Bald guys are in style right now big time and you can always work out if you want to build yourself up. I live in chronic pain every day 24 /7 so be thankful for your body if you are healthy and pain free. By the way most male movie stars are small guys, like Tom Cruise at 5'6", Paul Newman, Sly Stallone, Robert Redford, Toby McGuire, and there are many more!
2007-05-22 05:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on now....if that's the worst thing in your life- you're doing pretty darn good! I would say- find a hairstyle that suits you- how about shaving it? Bald men are often very attractive (especially now) and if you're thin - try bulking up ONLY if it makes you feel better! So your smaller...so??? Not everybody likes huge guys!!! Everybody has good something or other about them and don't forget..your probably your worst critic (sp?)... If you feel good/you look good and have a sense of sexiness BECAUSE of confidence. Guys that hang their head and have no confidence are unattractive BECAUSE they "feel" unattractive.
Your health, your attitude, and the atmosphere you are in can change EVERYTHING!
2007-05-22 05:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are ALL born blessed!!! Life is precious, no matter how big or how small we are; whether our hair is thin or thick.
Life is what we make it. By casting off negativity and victim mentalities, and putting our energies into positivity and action, we can change the course of our lives, one day at a time.
Buddha said, "With our thoughts, we create the world". What kind of world are you creating for yourself?
Henry Ford said, "If you think you can, you're right. If you think you can't, you're right".
You can.
2007-05-22 05:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋