the guy that i am so in love with keeps getting this girl pregnant and tells me that he can't leave her now because of the kids. she just had the second kid. i don't know if i should wait. i am so in love with him. i would be willing to wait if he tells me to. he doesn't even tell me where he sees me and him going. i have been in this relationship too long to let it go.
2007-05-22 04:56:55 · 15 answers · asked by HEARTBOUND♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry to say this but let it go.......I have been in a situation with my ex and his baby's mama....Funny thing is she got pregnant when we were together...isn't that messed up???? And when I tried to leave him he didn't want me to just bcuz he wanted two people at once. He practically lived with this girl while she was pregnant with his child and made an excuse that they were living together for the baby which sounded like bull to me. Anyways he isn't the only one put on this earth for you to love...let him go...I know that it is very hard bcuz sOooooo many emotions are involved but leave him alone.....He will see what he ignored when you leave.....Today I am happy with my life and my new boyfriend....he treats me waYYYYYYY better than my ex did........and I don't have to worry about my boyfriend makin babies with some other chic...
Hope that I helped mami!!! Good luck!!!!
2007-05-22 05:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♡♥Poisonous Strawberry♥♡ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to be so brutal, but you are in for a long and bumpy ride if you stay with this guy! You know he is not going to leave her, he has told you so. Whatever reasons he gives for staying with her, the bottom line is that he IS going to stay with her, and you will always just be his "bit on the side". You have a long life ahead of you, and why should you give up the potential for real happiness, with someone who really loves you and only you, for some loser who is just using you for sex? If he really did love you, do you really think he would have gotten her pregnant the second time? If you let this guy go, you will be opening yourself up to meeting the man who is going to treat you like the queen you are, and who will love and cherish you for yourself. It will be hard for a while after you let him go, but believe me, Mr right IS out there, just waiting to meet you. Don't demean yourself by staying with this loser, no one deserves to be treating in such a degrading way.
2007-05-22 12:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by sparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's there for the kids then why does he keep sleeping with her to get her knocked up? he is playing you and likes the on the side girl. he is dirt and you should love someone who respects you and wants to be with you regardless of anything else. he'll never leave her and if he does and knocks you up then what keeps him from having someone else on the side who he tells he's only with you for the kids?? think about it long and hard and then get angry and grieve the loss and move on.
2007-05-22 12:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by charla f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really the kind of man you want to be in a relationship with? If you don't have the strength to leave then I guess you deserve it. I'm sorry. I don't think anyone deserves being treated that way.
2007-05-22 12:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull your head out already. He is not married to somebody yet has fathered two children? That means that for the next 18 years he will be working two jobs just to pay the child support. You also know that he has no moral fiber as he has no shame for what he has done. Get as far away from the slime as fast as you can.
2007-05-22 12:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait what is wrong with you, time heals so let this joker go it looks like hes just stringing you along, try to forget about this guy and leave him alone and find you a new man who wants to be with you for you.
2007-05-22 12:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you like a fool and you are soooo letting him do it....what's wrong with you? where's your dignity and self worth?
===so what if you've been with him for years? --This guy is a no good cheating piece of **** and you darn well know it...
-----.it's about time you woke up and smelled the darn coffee
----It's better to break things of than to stay with him another year...you'll find yourself in this mess again and again if you don't boot his sorry behind to the curb.
2007-05-22 12:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when he had the second child with this girl he told you his answer. He doesnt want to be with you at all. He is playing you get out and find someone else.
2007-05-22 12:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I guess you are doomed to being the "left overs" in his life because he isn't going to commit to you - he hasn't yet.
So hold on, cause you got a long ride of misery coming up in your life and it will all be SELF-INFLICTED because you refuse to walk away from this guy.
2007-05-22 12:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Stefka 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if HE loved YOU, then he wouldn't 'keep getting this girl pregnant'
You need to move on. I'm sorry that you think he's great and that you love him.....but I assure you, there are other, BETTER men out there who WON'T treat you like this...
2007-05-22 13:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋