love and relationship?

Question

i am in love with a gal whos 26 but i am 19. she married alsoe has a kid. shes not happy with her husband. they 3 and me live together. her hubby is a good frnd of mine and we all have great time together. but he doesnt know that we are in love and wanna spend rest of our lives together.she tells me often that we cannot stay together as no one understand our love. but its now impossible to break apart. it wud be like the end of life. what should we do and how would peolpe see us if we get marries after her divorce. we need advice wat shud we do

Answer 1

Do not build the foundation of your relationship on the prospective ruins of someone else's relationship.

They as a family
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They live together, have a child and are happy together.

This woman of 26 years
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No one in the world can say they are 100 % satisfied and happy with their lives and relationships. There's always something missing and we are always unsatisfied with our lives to some extent

The man with whose family you live
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Don't stab in his back because what we do, we get it back sooner or later.

You Yourself
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You are single and free. Don't waste your time with this woman who is married, has a husband, a baby and is happy with her life. If a married woman can fall for you, then any good girl would love to be with you. So please, don't waste your time, emotions and most important your feelings.

Answer 2

What you do with your lifes isactually no one elses business so dont worry about what anyone else thinks. This is not the best of living situations so Im not sure if shes exactly in love with you or she views you as a temporary out with fun in a boring marriage and thats all there really is. I cant tell if you two could actually have a good long term relationship if she left him. I know what she tells you and its probably exactly what you really want to here, but words are cheap especially if used to control someone. Living together forces the feelings to happen here but would be interesting to know if they would still be there if living conditions were different. Hopefully this makes sense to you. Think about it before doing anything drastic. Good luck

Answer 3

First dont betray ua friend imean the hubbby. keep in mind that what goes around comes around. so leave the lady alone and find the love of ua life. NB- it wont be the end of life if u guys break apart but it would be if the same will be done to u i.e what u want to do to this hubby. so watch out!!!!!!!

Answer 4

HAHA!!!

I bet she said the same thing to her husband *WHEN SHE MARRIED HIM!!!!*

Dude, you are obviously a *great* friend. When your little love story comes to fruition, remember that she'll probably take an interest in the next friend that comes along. Seriously, seek help, this is not a normal situation...

BTW, at 19 years old, DO NOT DATE CHICKS WITH KIDS!!!!!!!!

Go listen to Tom Lykis, for your own good.

Answer 5

Dude, you are her jump off. She's not leaving her husband for you. She has already told you so.

Go and find some one who is not married and wants the same things that you do.

Answer 6

u could just enjoy it for yourself. And except the consequences as all part of it if you're discovered or dropped. People won't care. There's a war going on for heavens sake.

Answer 7

You're being used. You're also betraying a friendship. Bet 90% the relationship will fail with her if you go for it.
Move out.

Answer 8

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