If the theory is true, every man is gonna do it if it's there,
what is the point? How do women benefit, if at all?
Is this why so many women are single?
is that why so many swingers are happy, or are swingers happy?
2007-05-22 02:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why would me asking a simple question make anyone sick Vince????
It was just a question!!
LOL
2007-05-22 02:45:17 · update #1
If that's a true statement then all women have a bit of b*tch in them.
You have to find someone you love and trust and that's all. There are no guarentees on anything in life. Other then the fact you will die someday.
2007-05-22 02:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by chickey_soup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty sweeping suggestion, that all men cheat. The fact is that only about 40% of men have affairs and women are right behind them in the statistics. By the numbers women are just as likely to cheat on their spouse as men are.
And are swingers happy? Yeah, real ones are. Wannabe's trying to patch-up a failing relationship weren't happy coming into it and aren't happy while doing it, and will continue to be unhappy. Why are swingers happy? Is because they can screw around? For most, no. It is because their relationship has evolved beyond petty jealousies and insecurities. After taking sex off the alter and no longer worshiping it as the be-all of the relationship, they discover the real reasons they love each other, and not just lust each other.
2007-05-22 15:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes swingers are happy, in surveys over 60% rate their lives as "Very happy" vs. just over 30% for the rest of the population.
Swingers enter into it as an adventure they share together not because men are dogs. As a matter of fact if people get the sense that its a guy looking for some on the side and the wife is just along for the ride, they would be very hard pressed to find other couples willing to play with them.
2007-05-24 12:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make me sick, I guarantee that if my woman kept me satisfied and I LOVED her unless I am a nympho she would be the only one I am with, some people need more because their partner does not give them what they need sexually. As far as swingers go that can cause and solve problems it is all in the personality of the people participating.
2007-05-22 09:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Vince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swinger thing apart, i wish i could give u 10 stars for this, sounds true, lol.
2007-05-22 09:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by kumar v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that. And i am sure swingers aren't happy, how can they when they are abusing their marriage vows? I don't mean to offend anyone just speaking my mind.
2007-05-22 09:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm typing this with a HUGE smile on my face! :o) ..I've been in a relationship and married to the same man for going on 7 years..We're also having 3 couples over Friday night..I bet there are gonna be more smiles on everyone's married faces that night! To those that it "makes them sick", you have your own opinion, and we do what floats our boat..It's not for everyone, but it's for us! Everyone have a great holiday weekend..I know we will LOL
2007-05-23 16:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~K~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes all men do crazy s*** dat you just be like what the f*** is wrong wit dis guy but marriage is not a waste of time if your old enough like 35 and you outa college and doin you and a man come along and wana marry you den daz alright but if you 15-32 tryna get married my opinion is dont do it
2007-05-22 09:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a 2 way street, sister. Women aren't exactly the easiest to read and communicate with. BTW, woof.
2007-05-22 09:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think marriage exists to provide a stable financial unit both for the parents and for the kids.
2007-05-22 09:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋