2007-05-22 02:25:03 · 6 answers · asked by sweetcake 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah. I agree with nycguy. There are emotional connection and physical connections in life. Of course its better when you have both in a relationship, but if there is nothing there except physical lust and attraction, chances are after sex, things will be boring. You will have gotten what you wanted, and its time to move on to the next. This is where one night stands often come in. Sex is supposed to enhance and strengthen a relationship, not destroy one.
2007-05-22 02:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds more as if it is YOURSELF that you do not like or have not yet learned to accept.
Having sex with a person... especially if you have sex with someone of your same gender... becomes an uncomfortable reminder to YOU, that you are having sex in a way that YOU are uncomfortable with or do not respect.
It is probably more about the "ACT" of sex that you find objectionable... rather than the "PERSON" with whom you do it. And you reject or avoid the person you had sex with as a way of denying / avoiding your own sexual orientation and lessening your own discomfort.
When you become more comfortable and accepting of your OWN sexuality... you will probably be better accepting of those to whom you are attracted.
2007-05-22 09:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know i tend to like who i have sex with after wards.
2007-05-22 11:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by I love Dionne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not do anything if I do not like them
2007-05-22 10:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want them only for their body.
2007-05-22 09:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need help buddy!
2007-05-22 10:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋