2007-05-22 02:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by RaiKwon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you have to work on communicating. Even if the communication is that it isn't going to work out, you still need to understand each other if you can. You will benefit from fighting through to communicate in the long run.
It might be over, but start talking, start arguing if that's what it takes, but if it looks over anyway, what do you have to lose? Throw your cards out on the table and find out what the other person thinks.
2007-05-22 02:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need something to spice it up - perhaps its just got too comfortable and then it went on to being boring.
Do something different and daring with the main theme being communication. Make the first move and ask your girl, what's on her mind, where she sees herself with you, how is she feeling about the relationship and suggest ways you think you could come out of your "comfortable" phase.
6 years is a long time and you have a long history so compound and incorporate those details into making a turn around for the better....
Work on communication and that means asking....
2007-05-22 09:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily, If you really care about this person it is possible to turn your relationship around. Of course it goes without saying communication is very important. See if you can get some counseling. It could make all the difference.
2007-05-22 09:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, when you have to ask this type of question on here you know youve got big marital problems. Marital counseling could help here but only if both of you want to save the marriage and both are willing to do whatever it takes to do so. Now you know you have a marital challenge but what and how you handle it is totally up to you guys and only you two know whether or not this marriage is worth saving. Good luck
2007-05-22 09:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who want to stay in a relationship work hard to sustain it once you see flaws you try to quickly cover it up.It's over when you say its over or you want it to be over otherwise as long as you hold on it will stay on whether you communicate or not.The only thing is each one willl find his or her satisfaction outside the relationship.
2007-05-22 09:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ralf D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on whether u want it to be over or not.6 years is a long time for u to let go......but if u feel u cant work it out then u can let go..should u decide your relationship is worth fighting for then by all means save it..u know its over wen u dont want to work out your relationship
2007-05-22 09:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you both are heading for a break up... why do you not communicate with one another?
2007-05-22 09:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I'd try counseling first to see if you can start communicating better. But if it gets worse, yeah, you're done.
2007-05-22 09:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans in weeks ahead and discuss them while rubbing her feet and you fix dinner over a cozy fire. Good luck.
2007-05-22 09:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Neal C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it is over
if you want to SAVE the relationship then get into some counseling
2007-05-22 09:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋