2007-05-22 01:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by stargirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would do my best to remove any thoughts, memories and even avoid places that remind you of him. I went through the same thing. I even went as far as changing jobs and apartments to keep him out of my mind.
If you are happy in your marriage...That would be the correct thing to do. Or you could discuss with your husband the possibility of being friends with your ex if you feel you could keep it at a friendship level.
If you are unhappy in your marriage....maybe its time to start thinking about a way out. Its sometimes a harsh reality to face.
I guess it also depends on what excatly you miss about your ex....
Good luck sweety. Just remember to keep a clear head...and do unto others as you would like done to you
2007-05-22 01:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by peoplerstrange62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the guilt trip. You arent really missing your bf, per se, but you are missing the fun and all the good times you had with him. Youre bored with your current life and just want the thrill of yesterday again. Theres no telling how long or what kind of relationship it would be if you were with this other vguy right now. Remember, its not having what you want but wanting what you have. The grass is always greener on the other side til we get there and suddenly its no longer as green as we thought it would be. Think about it before acting on it
2007-05-22 01:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't feel guilty. This is just part of life. You were with him before you married your husband. A little fantasy doesn't hurt anybody as long as you don't act on it or tell anyone about it. It happens with all of us.
2007-05-22 01:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it particularly is not uncommon normally this occurs for 2 motives a million being the obtrusive and that's that rather are nonetheless in love with him, or the different that's a greater straightforward reason and that's the courting ending replaced into no longer your selection and you weren't in any respect given the prospect to have closure
2016-12-11 16:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that when you got married, not after. Forget the ex. I'm sure there is a reason he is an ex and not your husband.
2007-05-22 02:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You SHOULD feel guilty. Your husband should not have to live "in the shadows" of your ex-boyfriend. He desreves your undivided attention. Your ex, is an ex, for a reason.
2007-05-22 01:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its because we realize we have moved on to another phase in our grown up lives,we miss what represents our youth.
2007-05-22 01:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you got married to forget him.....1 misteak......2 don"t make children with your husband if you are still thinking your ex because your child is going to see you getting divorse and you are going to disroy lifes....
2007-05-22 01:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by marjus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops!
2007-05-22 01:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by BT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best to snap out of it or end it with your man.
you dont need that kinda drama in your life!!!!
2007-05-22 02:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by yonke q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋