i am angry to God?

Question

HE was a good friend of mine ....,,yes friends God but yesterday some thing really happen to me ,,as i was expecting that ; Three days back i have requested to God plz plz plz do as i say its regardinga very personal matter infact i didnt ask him to hurt any body because of me but eh didnt listen any thing ,,,,what ever happen against me my enemires are happy atleast it seems God is with them he was he will be ...........

i promised to God that if that not happen what i want i will suicide and yes i am ready to do that .I know its totally wrong its a sin<<,,,,but cant do any thing coz this is the only way i have .I dont have any other option .....

Now plz dont tell me that i am not normal ,yes i am not because i was normal ...i wanna live but i think he dont want me to be happy .....what can i say nothing accept this that ..

Answer 1

First, never take a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Second, if you believe in God, sometimes His answer is 'no'.

Third, God is not like a genie in a bottle where you make your wish and He grants it.

Lastly, God is not on anyone's side but His own

Answer 2

God is not only with your enemies, He is with you as well. Just because He didn't answer your prayer in the way that you TOLD Him to, does not mean that he did not answer it. Sometimes the answer is "no"or "not right now". Perhaps God knew that what you asked for was not the best thing for you at this time. Threatening to commit suicide because God does not grant your request is not the way to go, it will not get you the outcome you want. Whatever you asked of God, it is not worth giving your life up for, believe me. There are always options in this world, even though in your upset state you may not be able to see any right now. Once you have calmed down a bit, think of what options other than suicide are available to you, and if you really can't think of any, go and talk to someone who can help you. I would be more than willing to listen if you would like to e mail me. Perhaps just getting someone to listen to your problems would help. I am sorry you feel the way you do, and hope that you can get some help soon, I had a sister who committed suicide, so know what it feels like for the survivors. Please don't put the people who love you through the same pain and hell that I have been through because of my sister.

Answer 3

My dear, God is and always will be your friend and savior. If you have made a request of him and he has not answered, that request is not for you. God works in a wondrous way and you will find your answers if you keep seeking them, but please dont expect God to be the one that makes you happy, you are the one that is responsible for listening to His whispers and making it happen. Suicide is a sin, the only thing I can think of as an exception is if you are terminally ill and have fought a good fight against it and are close to the end of the road and the pain is too much. Remember all sins are forgiven, He died for our sins. Good luck and dont do anything stupid, each and every life is precious, you havent been listening to what He has been telling you. Please listen with your heart not your ears.

Answer 4

At the time we are born, God never promises us a happy and fulfilling life but he does give us the chance to make out of it what we will. Basically, its our own life and what we do or not do ith it is totally up to us. We can live within our own boundaries or we can venture to go beyond our secure little life box, if you will. Sometimes, for reasons unbelnownst to us, like the song says; " some of Gods best things are unanswered prayers." God is a very busy man trying to keep up with every prayer request so sometimes hejust cant get to everyone and think what the world would be like if God did grant every prayer. This is why he has given us the ability to solve most of our challenges, but even like God, we cant solve everyone so we must decide which ones are more important and which ones we can live with. Also there is not always an answer or solution to every challenge. So unfortunately life does not always go as we would like it to, but never the less, life goes on, we go on the best way we can. God never gives us more than we can handle. Sometimes we have to dig a little deeper inside ourselves to fid the way but its always there deep inside ourselves. There is no challenge out there, big enough to make us quit living and there is always a lending hand willing to give us the extra help we need if we just look for it. We might not like our lives at times but its all each one of us has, and what we do with it is up to us. Good luck

Answer 5

God does not answer prayers just because that's what you want from him. We are all given tests and challenges in life, and it's how you overcome that determines your strength. There are reasons your prayers weren't answered, and perhaps it is not for you to know those reasons yet. Suicide is a selfish coward's way out of a problem. Stand and face your problem, and ask instead for strength and hope. And remember, that chances are you got yourself into whatever problem you're having, but God will help you get yourself out by giving you the strength to do what is right. Suicide is not the answer.

Answer 6

Your going about it the wrong way girl friend. God will help you only if he knows your helping yourself. Go to church and be sincere to God, think about all the good things you have done and that you have in your life. Suicide will only hurt other people and its a weaklings way out, you seem like a strong person so go out there and face your problems head on, things will start going your way, just take on 1 problem at a time. Good luck

Answer 7

I am recommending you do not kill yourself. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. What I suggest is that you consider the idea that an all-powerful being such as God, would not want you to be unhappy. So maybe your troubles are caused by the world around you and the way you react to it, not by God.

God believes in the Prime Directive. He will not do anything for you that you can do for yourself.

Take care of yourself and have a good life.

Answer 8

you dont have much faith in God thats why you think this way. God grant all prayers and wishes with no specific time. He just let us giving time also to think what we really like and wish too, the "must" things we ask, because God will never allow us to feel pain at the end. Don't let your stubborness and caprizes over you, Don't challenge God because He knows when the right time to grant every wishes and prayers. Just have patient and wait for the miracle and it will surely happened. trying to end up your life is not the best solution. whatever problems you have now, your not only one who is suffering from that. try to be open minded and be calm. go out and meet all your friends, hang out with them or talk to your family they will surely understand you. if you want you can talk to me anytime. God bless

Answer 9

dear samankhan_007
frankly telling, if you are a friend of someone he/she is your friend not your slave that you have to remember always. you are a friend of God that's good but God also has some duties in his hands those has to be completed wihtin the time as you complete your assignments, he is thinking about the whole world each step he took has a big planning behind so... dont think of dying it will hurt god beacuse he loves you as anything and accept his judgement as he never wants to do bad with anyone. OK

Answer 10

God does not "do" favors. All you can do is ask God for strength to get through all of your troubles. God does not do bad things to you. He is not with your enemies. He is there, loving you as always. Also, suicide is not the answer. Doing that would be the equivalent of giving in to the enemies. Stand strong, be positive. Life is not meant to be easy. We all have our problems, believe me. We all get mad at God at some point in our lives; I have.
Please be strong and ask God for strength. This troubling time shall pass, I promise. Just ignore your "enemies", okay. Do not give them any of your energy. Good luck.

Answer 11

Go and get some help talk to someone. Everyone makes mistakes. There are plenty of options. Don't do this you have family and friends that love you, you would leave a trail of sadness and confustion. Life is a wonderful mystery.God would not want anyone to harm themselves because he loves you because you are special and unique.