i'm not ready to have a baby so i would like to abort this 4mos.pegnant by me,what medicine should i take?

Answer 1

I would suggest educating yourself a little on abortion. Go to google.com and search "abortion" under "images" and that will bring you to some sites on abortion with some very disturbing pictures. This may cause you to have a change of heart. Regardless of what anyone may say or think, abortion (this far along) is murder. I'm sure you don't have it in your soul to murder your own innocent unborn child. Your babys heart begins to beat at 21 days into your pregnancy, that's 5 weeks. Therefore, this child has been living for over 3 1/2 months now. There are other options, don't feel "stuck", and don't feel that your life is over. You have the opportunity to sacrifice another 5 months of your life to nurturing this child, and then you can give someone the blessing of having a child that is not able to do it on there own. You may even find that later on in your pregnancy you want to keep it. There are so many mixed emotions throughout these 9 months, it's not easy, but it's not so bad to where you would have to go the extent of killing your own child. I'm not trying to put you down in any way, like I said this may all be just some mixed feelings that you're having right now. Don't let yourself feel horrible for taking this into consideration, it's a very scary thought to know that you are creating a life. But, please do consider the life of that baby.

Answer 2

Whoa! What a lot of judgmental people!
None of us know anything about you or what caused you to be in the situation you are in.
None of us are perfect, we all have made mistakes.
With the notable exception of One Race, most of these people also have absolutely NO IDEA what they are talking about.
It's hard to know how far along, exactly, "4 months" is. If you are only 16 weeks, it is definitely not too late for a legal procedure, but it is too late for a medical abortion (taking a medicine). The procedure becomes more complicated the farther along you are. At 20 weeks, for example it is really a pretty big deal.

Make an appointment at a clinic that offers second trimester abortions. Depending on where you live, it may mean traveling to a larger city.
At the appointment, they will do an ultrasound to determine exactly how far along you are. Then they will counsel you on your options, and explain the procedure, if abortion is the option you choose.
Good luck to you. This is a hard road, whatever path you take.

Answer 3

Well it has been a week since you posted your comment I hope that you didnt abort your baby. Pregnancy is a serious life changing experience, If you werent ready to get pregnant you shouldnt have had sex.
And if you didnt know better than you are to immature to have a child, There are plenty of people in the world that would adopt that can not have kids. Have you thought about the long term affects of terminating your pregnancy? What about the mental affects? Do you think you will be able to just walk away from this with no guilty concious or regret? You seriously need to talk to a counselor before making another life altering choice.

Answer 4

You may not be ready to have a baby and thats really hard but I dont think you can abort the baby this far along. If I were you I would start looking at adoption and other options because I think the abortion option is out. However I know you probably dont want to hear this but I wasnt ready either but when my daughter was born I cant even tell you how much I love her and feel blessed to have her.

Answer 5

look I've all way's been pro-choice but you are so far along now that an abortion by pill's is out of the question if you try to do it by taking pill's or something you will probably end up just making this baby mentally or physically handicap and ruin it's chances of being adopted by a loving family,but if you are serious about an abortion do it at a clinic but be prepared because of how far along you are you will have to deliver you dead baby just go some where for help don't do any thing rash I know it's hard but give this baby a chance there are all kinds of adoption center's some even let you chose and meet the adapting parent's just look at all possibilities before you do anything. if you need someone to talk to feel free to E-mail me at [e-mail] I wish you the best in whatever you chose and don't let these people's judgments get you down they don't know your circumstances and for all we know you could have been on birth control when you got pregnant I was it is not 100%so you guy's need to get over yourselves hope this find's you well

Answer 6

Its a little too late for that. You can't take anything and you can't get an abortion. Go to an adoption agency so you can give the baby to a family that will actually love it. Some of the people will even take care of the rest of your prenatal care.

Don't be stupid and try and harm the baby because yo will end up hurting yourself too. If you were grown enough to have sex then you should be grown enough to accept your responsibilities.

Answer 7

Well girl, you shouldn't abort the baby. Could you live the rest of your life knowing that killed your child? Go on with your pregnancy and put it in adoption. Abortion is not the answer to your problem. When you engaged in sex you should be ready to face the consequence which is pregnancy. After all sex is made to conceive and not just for pleasure. Well i hope i enlightened you.

Answer 8

Aint gonna happen. The only type of abortion available during this second trimester is a saline abortion. What happens is (and depending on your ability to find an MD to perform it), is that the amniotic fluid is removed and replaced with a saline solution. Eventually, labor results and a dead fetus is delivered. Even those women over 35 who have a positive test for downs syndrome and elect to terminate do it way before this stage of the pregnancy. Why in the world would you wait so long to make such a decision? No medicine in the world will help you to abort...all youd be doing is damage to yourself and then you would deliver a severely medically challenged baby. Either look into adoption or make up your mind to take care of this precious baby. You should have thought about the consequences before having unprotected sex....and not use abortion as a form of birth control.

PS Please read carefully all those preceeding answers. We all seem to be in agreement as to what you need to do. Step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions. Be the great mom we all know you can be. One day you will thank us all for taking our advice.

Answer 9

At four months in to pregnancy it will be complicated even if you go to the Dr. I had a miscarriage and I was 16weeks into pregnancy . I was in the hospital 24hrs then went home spend the night then went back to hospital the next day because I had a very high fever I was in the hospital for two weeks fighting for my life. And it was a natural miscarriage imagine if I would had an abortion it would've been worse, don't kill the baby cause it to late. He/She is already in human form with eyes ,toes hands etc. If you don't want the baby then give it up for adoption don't kill him! I have a picture of my baby who died. if you want I can e-mail it or something to prove to you he was a baby not a fetus.Please give the baby a chance to live .

Answer 10

Are you out of your mind? this baby has a mind, heart, and feelings. how could you do this? you have aliving being inside of you, there are people in this world who would love to have a child and cant because they may not be fertile or cannot concieve. were you complaining while having unprotected sex? probably not, so why complain now? i think you should consider adoption before doing this because first off there will not be too many people who will do an abortion and at this point there are no medications you can get over the counter that will guarentee an abortion and most likely will just cause you problems and possibly cause defects with the baby! i think you need to think about this. just because this is not a planned pregnancy doesnt mean you can just terminate it, your going to live with what ifs later on down the road if you can even have children, most people that have an abortion are not able to concieve again. stop being selfish, give the baby up for adoption, all your medical bills and everything will be paid for by the adoptor!!