Help me.
I don't want to go back to work .... ever
I don't want to talk to my family ever again
I can't see the point of Y!A (even though I'm asking another question).
I just want to curl up and fall asleep - for ever.
2007-05-21 22:35:16 · 30 answers · asked by elflaeda 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
This is a really worrying question. I've just posted an answer to your previous question, please post something soon so that we know that you're alright. I really hope that your day got better, Elflaeda.
2007-05-22 06:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Voight-Kampff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as though you are depressed and your life is not going anywhere, it won`t be like this forever, you appear to lack some sort direction. Finding it won`t be easy or happen overnight and you need to work on one thing at a time. it would help if you have a chat with your doctor and maybe get some counselling. Start looking for another job, it may take a while but keep looking there is something out there for you.
Think about a college course part time to learn new skills, meet new people this can have a dramatic effect on your life. My wife did this some years ago (Before i met her), she was a single parent and did a college course which led to voluntary work and met so many new people, it changed her , she ended up playing in a steel band which boosted her confidence so it can happen.
Your family isues are another part, maybe you can deal with this at a seperate time through talking to them nd explainn how you feel, but get you sorted first.
Yahoo answers is made up of a cross section of people, i have seen many questions similar to yours that have had some really constructive answers and genuine good advice, so stick with it as your contribution makes a difference.
You sound tired which can be caused by the stress you seem to have, a chat with your doctor as i said earlier may help.
Try and get a couple of days break away from the every day things to help clear your thought channel
Give it all time, keep working to change things, don`t try to run before you can walk, take it slowly and you will gradually see the benefits and changes
I wish you all the best, life is woth living there are many wonderful things out there just waiting to be discovered by you.
2007-05-21 22:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by McCanns are guilty 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont know which of your questions came first but you said on another question you are afraid of losing your job due to health.
I can only assume that you feel this way because of your depression. Please use the links i have offered they may help you get support.
I am sorry you do not see the benefit of yahoo answers i think a lot of valuable advice is dispensed here. Of course there are unsympathetic people as people here are a cross section of society but that is the reason i like it you can get a whole range of views.
It is not a substitute for real medical help which you should seek if you have a specific problem but people here can offer emotional support.
I understand your depressive mood i have felt like that many times but you really need to find the right help for your health problem.
2007-05-21 22:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by popartangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have days like that Hun.
If you are really depressed go and get help from a professional. You are right about Y!A in that respect (reading some of the negative A's above), but most people here will lend support with words. It sounds like you need a cuddle and a chat with your best m8. Call her/him and talk.
Cheer up.
We will see you later/tomorrow, hopefully feeling better.
xxx
2007-05-21 22:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real cry for help,you need to seek professional help and fast,asking this question on here is only going to depress you further, with some of the negative comments you are bound to get.Think about what you are saying,don't do anything silly and talk to someone,anyone,but do it now.x
2007-05-21 22:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to take a good nap. When you wake up deal with yoru problems one at a time. Come up with solutions for each one- do you need to get a new job? How can you better communicate or not communicate with your family? It will be easier after you've slept and maybe had a good meal. Just take care of yourself now. You're going to be O.K.
2007-05-21 22:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
First thing you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself there is always someone worse of than you.
secondly think of the positive things you must have in your life.
Last but no means least there are people who love you no matter what including us fellow Yahooers.
Hugs n kisses xxx
Take care :)
2007-05-21 22:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dj' s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're feeling depressed I would strongly advised that you talk to your GP about how your feeling and he could suggest something for you. Or how about taking yourself on a break from it all, it has been proven that a change of scenary is good for you.
2007-05-21 22:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not start a 360 page?
You can blog whatever you want, and only if you want. You can have 'friends' if you want and how many you want.
Even if it's just to put your thoughts down it's good as it gets stuff out of your system.
You can be yourself or whoever or whatever you want
2007-05-21 22:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jayne 2 (LMHJJ) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have a hot bath, go to bed, you'll feel better in the morning!
2007-05-21 22:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Gail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋