I've been on the back end of the "Dump" truck about 7 times. though the current relationship I'm in has been going strong for around 5 years now, steady, level and happy. =)
The condition of love is that one overcome the basic instinct of avoiding pain. Love is entered first with freedom of this fear, to give us a sample of what love has to offer. our first hit, so to speak. Every love after the first we must weigh the benefits of what love can give us with the heartache of it possibly not working out.
When one conquers this fear, a relationship can be entered into not with nervous caution but with calm optimism =)
2007-05-21 20:48:15
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answered by roke_tanuki@sbcglobal.net 2
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All breakups are bad. There is noting like losing that person that you thought was the one. It can feel like the person has died, there just out of your life' and you have to think about it, all the time, it sucks. Whats even more annoying is the people telling you time will make it better. Just wanna choke there little helpful soul. But if you have had more than one bad break than you must keep finding people to love. That's what its all about fall down six times get up seven. You could just give up live in a small house with a bunch of cats, or you could find that next person to fall in love with and appreciate it that much more. Breakups suck I wish there was an island to send ex's. Hey there the ones missing out. Take it easy
2007-05-21 20:51:48
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answered by Bill Folder 1
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not really. I had a couple of funny ones, and a couple that made me cry for like 5 minutes, but i was with a guy for almost 6 years now... all through high school i was with him, so i missed out on all those dating stories and bad breakups, but i think i like it that way. do you have more than your share of bad breakups?
2007-05-21 20:42:49
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answered by Angel♥Baby♥Girl 3
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My first "real" relationship (other than the two day high school ones) ended up in marriage so no I haven't had any bad breakups that really shook me and I consider myself lucky because I've seen some people really have they're heart broken :o(.
2007-05-22 00:33:18
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answered by Passerine 3
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I never had a bad breakup.
2007-05-21 20:41:39
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answered by dance21 4
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No not really-I also want to commend MafiaGirl- You Go Girl. God it's so good to hear someone say that!!and not be ashamed of it. And why would she get a thumbs down, Shame on Whoever gave her that.Now give me one too, if you do it just shows your Juvenile side, have the balls to leave your name and the reason if it's so bad.
2007-05-22 01:22:57
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answered by ? 6
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Yeah for sure I even had one so bad that I can't remember much about the whole day she broke up with me! I still cant remember what happened during about 1/7th of the time we were together!!
2007-05-21 20:45:45
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answered by Matthew E 4
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A couple but mostly not too bad. I don't like to fight about it. I just give in. Take what you want and get out. Or I'm leaving and you can keep it all. LOL
2007-05-21 20:44:36
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answered by Fireman T 6
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I think I have had some pretty nasty ones. Once I got my prince among toads, I felt that all the bad ones were negated.
2007-05-21 20:41:33
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answered by SquirrelBait 5
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Yes.
2007-05-21 20:41:48
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answered by Meeya 7
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