Been married 6years, last week sex life maybe 1 or 2 x's a month. will he cheat? also I meet someone what should I do? Do I stop talking to the other man or do I just wait and see what happens?
2007-05-21 19:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just get a divorce and stop making a mockery of marriage...
2007-05-21 19:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by chieko 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years is a long time to be with someone and demands a lot of commitment and work. If you have made it this far without cheating then maybe your marriage deserves another chance before you just give up. Try doing something special with your husband once a month, encouraging sex more often. Try counseling or talking to your husband about things the two of you could try to make your marriage a bit more "fun". The rigors of every day life pays a toll on many peoples marriages. The fun is no longer there and all you know is your daily routines. Break the routine up a bit do something different, everyone needs a bit of help to boost up their marriage once in awhile. Don't resort to cheating it will only end with hurt and regret. If you are truly unhappy end the marriage before you cheat it is only fair to your partner and everyone deserves that kind of respect.
2007-05-21 19:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if 1 or 2 times a month is less often than usual for you, then you should talk to him about it. About the other man, I tihnk you should stop thinking of him that way, and keep him only as friends. If it is risky, dont risk it. You two need to talk and work things out before one of the many confusing and hurtful symptons of an "unsuccessful marriage" come along. Good luck to you two. =]
2007-05-21 19:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on any problems you may have at home or with your marrage.Also 1or2X's a month can make a guy cheat.He also needs to think about why he got married.I've been married 17 years and wouldn't change a thing.I sit and think about what makes being married great!Also it's not worth cheating it will cost alot in the long run!
2007-05-21 19:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout you take some time out to fix your marriage instead of waiting to see who cheats first...What the hell. Six years is not that long. You guys should still be ******* like rabbits. You and your husband need to see whats wrong in your marriage work on it and be happy. Stop going around being horny for other guys.. What the hell is wrong with people!!!!???
2007-05-21 19:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by rey1101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not the person to say what you should do. It just all depends on how you feel. I mean have you talked to your partener about how your thinking. I mean that might be the best thing to do before taking that next move. You have put alot of time into one another. You might think about it before letting go of what you have. You must first ask your self do you love this person. But good luck with your choice.
2007-05-21 19:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to spice up your love life with your husband. If you love each other and are married why would either of you even think about cheating. Try and do more romantic things together. And dont be affraid to get frisky with your own husband.
2007-05-21 19:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by bigG949 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell just by the way your phrased the question that you've already made up in your mind to cheat. Why don't you just file for divorce and get it over with? It's not fair to your husband or family to go behind his back and do this.
2007-05-21 19:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be another statistic?
You stop talking to the man.
you work at your relationship.
you do different things in your relationship.
you communicate everything to your husband.
love on him.
Compliment him, touch him, encourage him. Men love nothing more than encouragement and compliments.. they thrive on it.
work at it.
why break his heart? why throw away vows?
2007-05-21 19:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, no wonder the marriage rate is going to heck. Are you kidding me?
2007-05-21 19:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by JUSTWONDERIN' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋