im serious.. how can i make my own world where in.. i'm gonna be a very good friend to everyone.. and never to have an enemy?.. how can i make others feel their best?.. how can i held a great hand to those who need help?.. do you think.. at my age of 15, i'm gonna find someone to be considered as a true friend?
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i'm fully depressed right now for i haven't found such good friends at these times..
2007-05-21 19:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by ô,ô 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're going to have enemies whether you want to are not, some people just won't like you for no good reason at all.
The best thing you can do as a friend is to tell the truth in situations where the truth is necessary. Basically just have a positive aura around you, and try to make friends as best you can! ^_^
2007-05-21 19:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to please everyone! You will never be able to make everyone happy! It's not what life is about, anyway. It is about being happy, doing the best we can with our own life and by helping others. The way you are looking at things is exactly how I did when I was 16. (I don't even know how old you are) I never said no to anyone and wanted to make sure nobody ever got angry or upset with me. I'll tell you what that got me...USED alot! Taken for GRANTED alot! NOT respected or admired! You see, being strong and secure, confident and good hearted makes you a beautiful person and you will attract other beautifully strong people into your life. It can then be a give and take relationship with others instead of you giving until you are so depleted of all that you are, feeling empty and sad with nothing more to offer. It's hard to get back up, my friend, because you will be on your own with out anybody else when you're down. Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone. You've heard that. It's true. It's also true that you will find a true friend who cares for you and honestly adores you for you. It is not easy to find real friends but you will. Don't be in such a hurry that you cling onto just anyone or anything. Remember, be smart, be friendly, be wise, be strong and your beauty will shine through without you having to beg for it to be seen! Love yourself first. This is not selfish, it is the only way you will have what it takes to truly love another. Trust me! Just trust me! God love you, sweetie!!!!
2007-05-22 02:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life can be tough babes I have known some really nasty people who have used others for their own gains, just be yourself and don't give anything other than yourself in a friendship, cause many people just use others for money etc, a true friend will just enjoy your company :)
If you are feeling lonely and depressed why don't you try joining a local gym, they do let under 16's Join quite a few these days, my kids have just joined one and love it they are 13 and 14. It can actually boost your confidence and give you loads more energy, also meet others around your age. I truly hope you feel better soon, cause life can be a b-i-t-c-h but you got to grab it by the balls :)
2007-05-22 02:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by clare w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation. But, I have always found that my best friends were the ones who met me while I was in a challenging situation. One of those friends is still my friend about 20 years later! I stood up in her wedding. Well, we met in a church choir group and started hanging out but you can also find friends by looking out for who needs a friend and not giving a rip about your reputation or the fads or what people wear or who they like. One of my closest friends - noticed me when I was the loner new student at school. I was weird - being from New York and transplanted into California! Well, she didn't care about whatever and sat right down next to me in the cafeteria and started chatting a bit and then we kinda did that more and more and started hanging out. Sometimes, you gotta look to the needs of others and this just happens. You win a true friend by being a true friend. You keep a true friend with lots of forgiveness and TLC.
2007-05-22 02:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you're good at heart (like you sounds) you don't have to do anything else, just spread love as much as possible and don't let even a little hatred to come inside your heart, stay happy, try to forgive people for their mistakes and try to help others in need. that way you can never had an enemy and all the people associated with you will feel their best with you. their's no age of finding a true friend, they can come in your life without knocking the door.
2007-05-22 02:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can make good friends. No one is bad it is how u think of them. After u come near to a person that u didn't like before u will find that this person is very nice and helpful.There will be no enemy if u understand someone's feeling and then there will be no enemy! Get to know someone in deep and that will help u make good friends. Good Luck!!
2007-05-22 02:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by butterupflies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure you will! 15 is like the age where you start thinking what direction you want to take your life in. Anything you do can effect you for the rest of your life so be careful who your friends are. Be careful of some of the people on here also.
2007-05-22 02:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Luv2no is in the house 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up....you are a kind and giving person. The kind of friendship you're looking for doesn't always happen over night, but if you're as considerate as you say...you'll be rich in friendship a thousand times fold. Don't be depressed kind-hearted...karma always has a way of finding worthy recipients...and the true friendship you're waiting to receive is just around the corner. Keep smiling!!
2007-05-22 02:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Love Lady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Big hugs and well wishes! Honesty is everything, just be true to your friends and family and you will earn their respect. But a gentle truth when needed, as some things can call for a harsher reaction if the truth is bluntly spoken without delicacy.
Be nice and treat others as you wish to be treated and if that doesn't work and they still crap on you....you didn't need them anyway.
2007-05-22 02:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to find true friends. Most of them will stab you in the back or turn on you when you need them the most. It takes time to find someone who has the characteristics of being a good friend. Be patient and you will find someone - and when you do, you will know they are true friends.
2007-05-22 02:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋