i been calling her and txt her all day, she tells me shes been having a bad day so i ask her wats wrong. she says she'll talk bout it later when we both out of work. day goes on and i txt her later in the day and ask how she's doin. her exact txt reads "never better.lol" ... so i finally get out of work early enough to hit the gym... she calls in the middle of my work out and i answer to a sad *** sounding voice. so i ask wats wrong. she says nothing so im not in the mood to beat it out of her so i tell her ima finish my work out then call her back. she gets mad and hangs up. now she starts txtn me that im choosing the gym over her and does the whole guilt trip on me. so im now in no mood to work out and call her bak. to work it out now she dosent want to talk... so im stuck here confused. ladies please help
2007-05-21 18:52:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Could be PMS, but if I were you I would not say that to her.
By the way, if she calls you, knowing that you are busy, she must feel that she needs to talk. You should have asked if there was anything that you could do to make her feel better. Asking what is wrong is not always the best way to respond. She is probably not looking for you to solve the problem, but to just talk, and act like you care that she has a problem.
2007-05-21 19:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew she was feeling crap right from word go. And she knew that you knew. Maybe creating friction with you takes her mind off of whatever is going on. Some women won't give up information unless they are pried open with a crowbar.
Some men are like that too, my man will be eating his nails which is a sure sign with him that something is wrong, and I'll ask him and he will swear black and blue that nothing is wrong. Flag her for the night, stop pandering to her game. Finish your work out too, I find there is nothing better than a session at the gym when I'm angry.
2007-05-22 01:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Barkditch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to what I am reading about her she seems immature. I wouldn't enjoy hanging out with a male or female like this. There is nothing wrong with Females but there maybe something wrong with this one.
You seem like a caring person to even write this question wondering why? Maybe the question should be why do you tolerate this behavior and ask her when is it going to stop because in the long run this is not how you want to live your life. Unless I am wrong and your enjoying this.
Think about it and Good Luck to you.
2007-05-22 02:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by MuseumGirl48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
love is a delicate plant to give you flowers.
It seems that both of you are working persons........u should know from ur work pressure, what it comes to.......professional ego is worth mentioning.....take some more time...not to txt her, but to share her other feelings.....let her know that u care about her.....as u r working, u shld be matured enough........so no need to advice u......everyone has his own way to cheer up.......and is best in that........let the feeling come from the core of your heart........
2007-05-22 02:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Chandrachurh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's going through pms and is very emotional and wanted you to show more initiative when asking her what was wrong enough to come and see her instead of going to the gym, what she is feeling will pass....
2007-05-24 14:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she "BI-Polar? sounds confused to me and I know that I would not want anyone to drop that kind of load in my lap! Pay attention to her character and prepare yourself for your next move.
Or maybe she is cheating on you and had a bad day with her other lover, go figure, either way be prepared!
2007-05-22 02:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs some alone time to think things over. And nothing is wrong with her...my question is what the heck is wrong with males???
2007-05-22 01:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nigerian Babe Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel...some girlfriends can be like that they like to play hard to get and they want you to pursue them. its their way of testing if you like them enough to understand that they can't make up their mind on something. If her attitude is confusing you better comfront her about that.
2007-05-22 02:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by little_devil501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS is a cop out
Girls are weird.....I'm a girl but not one of those......She sounds young she needs some growing up to do......
2007-05-22 03:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is PMS-ing/mood swings??give her some time
2007-05-22 01:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋