I look at them and point them out to my boyfriend all the time is this a bad thing? What should I do?
2007-05-21 18:44:01 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes! It is totally normal!!
2007-05-21 18:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really a normal thing for girls to look at other girls and take notice of their dressing and style. It doesnt mean we have chemistry for them or something. Perhaps, we just want to get ideas that we can incorporate in our dressings. We get better views when we see certain clothes and styles on other girls. We will know then, whether it might be well on us or not. But, why would u point them out to ur bf? Thats a little crazy sweety. I mean, why would u distract him from u? Dont u think he should be paying more attention to u than to every other woman around him? :-)
Next time around, when u see the other girls and take notice of their dressing and all, just keep it to urself.. Its ok to look but why not just u and not ur bf too? Well, i was just wondering if i would show them all to my bf. Ooopps! I definitely wouldnt. I would want all his attention to me alone. lol
We all know guys do look around at other girls and sometimes flirt too even when we are with them. On top of that u are doing him a favor of pointing the girls to him by urself..
Come on sexy, let him have all his eyes for u.. You sure like it.. ;-)
Good time.
2007-05-22 01:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Manu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Storm, although it is probably a good thing that you are not intimidated by these other ladies enough to point them out to your bf, I would suggest that is is a rather poor choice of things to do. You want him to focus on you, and pay attention to you, not other women, you are risking someday him seeing someone who catches his eye more than you do, the next thing you will know you will have lost a bf.
If you notice other women and admire their look, take not of it, and incorporate the things you like into your look if possible to make yourself feel more desirable. But STOP being your bf's personal eye candy guide.
2007-05-22 01:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Look all the time! How she is dressed, the walk she is walking, the aura around her,the style of clothes that she is wearing and the way it fits her body shape,and so on. But never do I point another woman out to my man. It shows low self esteem on my part for I feel I should be the best looking woman in the universe as far as he is concerned!
2007-05-22 01:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe we all do it. If not, how would we ever get ideas for some new style that we would like to try. Pointing it out isn't so bad either. I would say that your guy is a lucky man! You could be an insanely jealous psycho who snaps every time he notices an attractive woman...
2007-05-22 01:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by archangelmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this all the time, too, with my boyfriend, and with other guy friends. Most guys like discussing other women. I'm interested in figuring out what they like and are attracted to. Plus, I am a typical competitive female, so I use the information to my advantage-to figure out how to make myself better, etc. It's a fun thing to do.
2007-05-22 01:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are describing is fairly normal. I don't know anyone who doesn't notice when someone is attractive or might make some kind of comparison. Just some food for thought: Are you trying to test your boyfriend to see if he goes for the bait? Are you fishing for complements? Are you personally attracted to other women?
2007-05-22 01:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by cubacheson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at their outfits, and ask them where they shop sometimes, but I don't examine how sexy they look in it.
I think it is a bad thing, because your boyfriend is probably getting signals from you that he can do the same thing.
2007-05-22 01:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% normal to look at other women. I am straight and have a boyfriend and i am always checking out both men and women. I view people as objects of art...each and everyone of us are different and beautiful in different ways. Its fun to compare and contrast each other and appreciate another persons beauty, what they are wearing, their body types, facial expressions...
2007-05-22 01:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. All women admire the style of other women, and the way they carry themselves. Many women pattern themselves by women that they consider to be role models. There is nothing to worry about.
2007-05-22 01:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who doesn't look to see if they are in the company of someone who looks better or trashier then them....like looking to see if who did better or worse then you on a test. Its not bad. just don't get carried away and don't envy
2007-05-22 01:50:23 · answer #11 · answered by eirama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋