It's possible. The withdrawl method is not reliable because it is possible for fluid, not ejaculation, to leak out of the penis & it may contain sperm which will impregnate a woman.
2007-05-21 17:53:10
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answered by chazta01 5
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Well, I know a lot about this particular subject, but your wording is pretty vague so I can only say for sure that the first time you described, you were safe. You mentioned 3 later, but not days or weeks, so..if the same thing happened 3 days later...well that's kind of iffy cause most women will ovulate 1 or 1 1/2 weeks after their last period, 3 weeks later? That's probably safe too, cause she's normally PMSing by then, having ovulated a week before.
Any time you have unprotected sex there is a chance, even if the woman had a baby just the day before. Even a nursing mother who is not having regular periods because she's nursing still has the abilitiy to become pregnant at any time and birth control is necessary ALL THE TIME unless she is SURE she IS PREGNANT already.
The pre-*** that seeps from the head of your penis has been known to also have a bit of sperm sometimes, and can be held responsible for fertilization.
The pill if taken continuously provides constant birth control AND NO PERIODS, which, for me, is PERFECT since my tubes are tied and now I never have to worry about either or when sex occurs, too freakin bad it doesn't happen more often.
Get her on birth control so you can both relax it's way easier and makes sex so much better without the nagging voice in the back of both your heads. They make a ring now made of a special material that holds one months worth of birth control that is inserted and slips around the neck of the cervix, no maintanence, no difference to you or her, no worries no mess no problem.
Get it for her, she'll love you every day of the month you can bet on it.
2007-05-21 18:10:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Generally when you had sex and made cummies in her the first time you should be ok. The second time was risky although you should still be ok as far as christian birth control goes. A 10$ pregnancy should help settle the question better than yahoo answers to get rid of any doubt. The Plan B was good but a condom is better. Pay that 12 bucks for a pack and don't go through the expense of plan b and worry of pregnancy again. Cava?
Also, don't regard the condom's break talk. The only time a condom broke on me was long long ago and has not happened since. Usually you want to put the condom on the tip of "el hefe" then squeeze the air out of the top before rolling it down completely. Then the chances of breakage are slim. If you are el macho and want to do it a second time, head to the bathroom and rinse off the dude and use a second new condom. Otherwise the two percent or so error rate increases from the little swimmers on your hands and elsewhere. As a final precaution buy condoms that have a spermacide check out this site below and learn little bro.
2007-05-21 17:55:29
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answered by PapaJon 4
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Usually - but not always - women get pregnant half way through their cycle. And usually - but not always - that is 14 days after the first day of her last period. So - it's probably too early to tell. In a couple of weeks - go out and get an EPT (early pregnancy test) and see what it says.
Whoever told you that it was SAFE to put your penis in a girl was either stupid or a liar. Sperm is in your pre-ejaculation too - and it's hard to tell when that is released.
Here's the bottom line. Don't put your penis in a female unless you are ready to raise a baby, give a baby away, or kill a baby. Make sure you've discussed this with the girl you're going to have sex with - because those will be your choices - and you'll need to agree about the route you're going to take. Not ready to talk about those things? Oh! Well then guess what.... You shouldn't be having sex! The only way to be SURE that a girl won't get pregnant is to NOT have sex. Keep your penis far away from her.
Sorry to be so blunt. I really hope she is not pregnant.
2007-05-21 17:59:45
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answered by liddabet 6
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You're sying it's 11 days after the last day of her period and her period doesn't seem to be coming again yet? Is her cycle only like 18 days long? If not, then I don't know why it's a bad sign that her period isn't here yet. And yes, the morning after pill DOES affect your periods. It can make them late or early, heavy or light. If she doesn't have her period in about another 2 weeks, though, she could try taking a pregnancy test, because Plan B is only 89% effective, and that's only if you take it within 72 hours of the sex act.
2007-05-21 17:53:38
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answered by grayhare 6
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why, dont you buy a prencey test and have youre girlfriend take it front of you wait til if its two blues lines means pregant if it just light blue one line mean not pregnanted. have you ask if she had missed her other peroid day or month. is better you both go together have a tests done see if she is really pregnant or not most girls can lied about theiselve beingin such a pregnanted. no if you had done in the show behide there isnt no way she can be cause the person egg cant even enter back side of the girl v**** . can be that she had tooked the birh control pills to not get pregnant at all . when the girl take it the medican just die the sperms right way.
2007-05-21 18:02:49
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answered by statecalifornia2009 7
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if you aren't ready to have a kid, always, ALWAYS, use either a condom or get your girlfriend to take the pill. just because you do it in the shower, and even if she has her period at the time, she can still get pregnant. you say that it is 11 days after her last period, is this the same period that she had while you had intercouse in the shower? if it is, she may not have a period because i have heard that the plan b pill can mess them up or you don't get it for a month, but that is jsut what i have heard. i can see that you are stressed so to end this just get your girlfriend to take a pregnancy test (you can get one at your local walgreens, publix or pharmacy). get her to take it on the first few days that she is expecting her period. repeat the test if you want to for piece of mind. please, next time use protection so you don't have to go through this kind of stress.
2007-05-21 17:58:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Has she been having normal periods every month? Or is she on the pill? If she is you have nothing to worry on her being pregnant, but it'd always help to buy a pregnancy test to be sure, even if she's two weeks it will come out positive.
Good Luck!
2007-05-21 17:55:06
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answered by Edith 2
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It's too early to tell.
It's just been 11 days after the last day of her period so don't freak out yet. The best thing you can do now is to take a pregnancy test. They don't cost that much and peace of mind is priceless.
2007-05-21 17:53:12
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answered by 1MonthPreggy 2
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i was on birth control pills and i had my period for the first 5 months of my pregnancy and every urine test i took came out negative it wasnt until i took a blood test that i found out i was pregnant..so here is a list of the top 10 earliest signs of pregnancy!!
10. Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.
9. Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.
You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep.
8. Implantation bleeding
Some women have a small amount of vaginal bleeding around 11 or 12 days after conception (close to the time you might notice a missed period). The bleeding may be caused by the fertilized egg burrowing into the blood-rich lining of your uterus — a process that starts just six days after fertilization — but no one knows for sure.
The bleeding is very light (appearing as red spotting or pink or reddish-brown staining) and lasts only a day or two. (Let your practitioner know if you notice any bleeding or spotting, particularly if it's accompanied by pain, since this can be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy.)
7. Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.
About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.
6. Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.
5. Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.
4. Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.
This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.
3. A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.
2. Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant.
1. The proof: A positive home pregnancy test
In spite of what you might read on the box, many home pregnancy tests are not sensitive enough to detect most pregnancies until about a week after a missed period. So if you decide to take one earlier than that and get a negative result, try again in a few days.
Once you've gotten a positive result, make an appointment with your practitioner.
2007-05-22 00:24:46
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answered by Anonymous
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She probably wont have a period for atleast 10 more days, according to you she is probably only 15 or 16 days into her cycle, wich means 10-15 more days before a period.
If you got plan B, and you did not ejaculate then she is probably not pregnant, but wait a few weeks to know for sure.
And if you are this worried, PLEASE next time, buy a condom.
2007-05-21 17:54:06
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answered by sweetie_baby 6
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