For petty family matters generally.
2007-05-21 17:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Men in general need to know just one thing : give your wife a cuddle. No matter what the problem, a cuddle always helps!!
2007-05-21 17:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever tried being there for her?
We get very bored with your problems, your ideas, your ways, your needs, your wants, your everything.
Have you ever just been there for her? Or does it always have to spill over to her doing for you too, or more or just you?
If you haven't one of your problems isn't her, it's you. You're whats known among women as a selfish lover.
If you have been there for just her, first congratulations on being a good lover, and second, ask her if shes ok. Show her some care and compassion. We are emotional creatures who fully understand your ego driven mind, but still have our own needs.
She might be hurt, or distracted by something more than what ever petty thing you think is distracting her. Then, maybe not act like or say it's trivial compared to your need for her mood to change.
Shes your wife, and I hope you two married out of love. Then love her.
2007-05-22 01:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you have done lately to make her life better. Woman's libido can be influenced greatly by a male living up to the help in helpmate! Look around and see if you can take up some slack in what she is coping with at home. Stress can make a mood "off". Doing the dishes, a load of laundry, something that needs doing without being asked....boy that is a turn on!!!!!
2007-05-22 04:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by rubypoppins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we want men who make it good for us be nice do things for her help with the house work . be romantic go out of your way to do nice things . tell her she looks Hot or just make her feel good about her in what ever way you know she likes and let her know you are still interested in her.and when you do it with her make it good for her slow down make love to her don't dig in. you have to make us fill good about us . I'm a house wife being with the kids all day cleaning up after EVERY ONE is not a turn on and after a long day there is no turn on just need sleep . make her feel good about her and open doors do what ever it takes . spice it up if you have to . if my husband pulls out porn I would get pissed maybe hit him . if he likes looking at other weman he can go get them why does he need me ? some ppl I tell ya . my husband would never do that . make her dinner . take her out . buy her something . make a day just for her . all about her . we do so much for you ... its your turn .if it don't work you need to sit down and tell her how you feel . make sure you do .
Good luck hope some thing works for you .
2007-05-22 01:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with her.
And her behavior (or lack of) is affecting the Family,and maybe also she is affecting the Relationship.
Tell her.
You care for her,no?
Don't let her fall.
2007-05-22 00:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come up behind her - kiss her neck and tell her to come with you. Take the reigns and you will 'wow' her. If she does not respond - she needs to get ahold of her "mood". And change it!
2007-05-22 00:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go get a beer at the local sports tavern, there is always some woman in the mood, maybe next time your wife will take you seriously.
2007-05-22 00:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by radames 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Maybe it's "off" because you're here asking strangers what is wrong instead of asking HER.
2007-05-22 00:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Buy some porn and watch it together.
2007-05-22 00:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jasumi 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
don't disturb her
2007-05-22 01:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by shongo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋