my bestest friend in the whole entire world is having problems with an ex-boyfriend of her's.
he gangs up on her and hits her and punches her.
i, being her best friend, should kno what to say....right?
well i dont.
i asked if she told her mom or dad or an adult and she said no because she doesnt trust her mom or dad or adults.
i really want to be there for her but i have no idea what to do because i have never been in that kind of situation before.
help!
2007-05-21 17:40:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her parents. Tell an adult you trust. This is NOT OKAY. This boy shouldn't be doing this in the first place and your friend definately doesn't deserve to be shoved in this position. She's scared and doesn't know who to trust anymore. You're her friend. Be there for her and tell someone. Don't let it be this way.
2007-05-21 17:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs help. If she won't go to someone then you need to do it for her. Talk to your parents, her parents, a teacher, counselor, or trusted relative.
She needs to get away from this ex now.
She may get mad at you for going behind her back but you're doing the right thing. You're a good friend for realizing that she needs help.
2007-05-21 17:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by All I can be is me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the schoold counselor. She will be able to counsel your friend on how to handle the situation.
Actually, it is horrible that she will not go to her parents. They would probably be able to help her get a restraining order against this guy.
Don't just sit back and do nothing. She may get seriously hurt or killed if you continue to let this go without someone knowing.
2007-05-21 17:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what it feels like, being stuck in a situation were you don't know what to say when you are stuck in a situation with a best friend:(..what i suggest you should do is call her all the time and find out how she is doing, make her notice that you care more than ever, then you just figure out what to say to her in that situation
2007-05-21 17:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lindastar14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to watch the music video eve....love is blind...after you see that you will never let man put hands on you...another thing is you have to tell someone before its too late...you could end up dead and no one would know...if i knew who you we're i'd help her by telling her theres nothing to worry about when you have a great friend...its like when you get rapped and you dont tell anyone what about that person who did that to you they got away with it...my suggestion is to talk open up and let people know that way you could be protected...good luck with you and your friend...but of luck to both of you....
2007-05-25 08:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Rios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean she doesn't trust her mom and dad? Are they bad to her or something because otherwise, that's who she should tell, really, I need more information to answer this question. rhythmicjen@yahoo.com
2007-05-21 17:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by rhythmicjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get out that physically abusive relationship immediately and tell her parents what's going on.
2007-05-21 17:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad situation. Maybe YOU should tell an adult.
2007-05-21 17:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Lindsey♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out the old frying pan and beam him in the head with it good and hard too any asshole who would hit a woman deserves at least that much and in my opinion sooooooo much more.I wish I could get my hands on this punk.
2007-05-21 17:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by *ACDC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to some of his best friends that he trusts. Tell them to talk to him, that if he doesnt stop, he'll lose his friends. And that he should get over her.
2007-05-21 17:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋