It is really hard and awkward to talk to her because shes not lively and doesnt wanna talk about anything, why is this?? has this happened to anyone else? is this normal??
2007-05-21 17:02:26 · 21 answers · asked by basketball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why does a girl get in a bad mood- sulky, doesn't want to talk- occasionally?.... Cuz she's a girl. If you've ever heard of PMS-- that could be one reason. Another possible cause- Depending on... well, a lot of different factors, there could be a lot of other things that would make her withdraw from contact.
Sure, it happens to most people, at least occasionally. For some of us girls, it's pretty predictable, though- for about 3 days every 4 weeks.
Just let her have her space. Let her know that you still love her, still like her...
2007-05-21 17:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u talk to your girl friend, make her feel safe to answer u truthfully. Before u ask her anything difficult, prepare yourself for an answer that u may not want to hear. Keep your emotions and responses under control and allow her to slowly open up to you. (remember emotions are neither right nor wrong-they are just indicators of whats going on inside).
Women are generally better communicators than men. But it may just be her personality type. I would be concerned though, if this keeps up because good communication is necessary to every relationship. Try to look into your past/previous conversations and decide if there was anything that u said or did that may have caused her to withdraw from u. If this is a serious relationship to u, and u can remember that u did something wrong...apologise....thats magic to a wowan, when sincere. Good Luck
2007-05-21 17:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every one has bad days.. even you. In time she may crack. When that time comes be there for her! So not to worry this thing happends to most everyone and is fairly normal. I guess depending on the issue at hand... for example.. is it about what you wanna watch on tv together? Just pick somethign you know whe likes to help put her in a good mood.. then maybe you can get to the heart of my she is in a bad mood to begin with..
good luck
paulie
2007-05-21 17:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by pdsaturn76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it appears you have never been with a woman long enough to see the dreaded PMS cycle. This is completely normal and most women just wish to be left alone. If she asks you to do anything just do it no backtalk or you will be in for a world of yelling and mood swings.
2007-05-21 17:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a moody person. Is it kinda like you are walking on eggshells around her? When she is like that, just give her space. I personally don't date people who are moody, because you never know when the mood is going to strike. Sometimes it can be embarassing! Good Luck, but if you are not happy, get out now rather than thinking things will get better, because they won't. Moody people are born and always will be moody people. It doesn't make them bad people......just very difficult and awkward to be around.
2007-05-21 17:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kingston's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also like that im a Cancer and im a moody sign... It takes some days to blow over but overall if she loves you and there isnt a specific problem you should give her some space... or some flowers to cheer her up. Make her a CD, send her a yahoo greeting card, be creative to get her on the up and up sooner rather than later.
2007-05-21 17:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by prissymnm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not it's normal depends on how often it happens. If it's just occasionally, just give her some space and make sure she knows she can count on you for support if she needs it. If it's happening more often, she could be depressed, and she might benefit from talking with a counselor.
2007-05-21 17:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be hormones. Talk to her and when you do be really sensitive about it. Know what you are going to say before you say it and let her know that what ever it is, she can always talk to you about it. Just know when to leave the situation so this girl doesn't start to bring you down,or get her some help she might be serious. How depressing.
2007-05-21 17:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by eirama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to get out of this situation is apoligize for something that you did, even if you don't know what you actually did just say your sorry. Because chances are it was you she saulking about, but if not just comfort her the best you can and subtly try to make her laugh.
2007-05-21 17:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit her dwn. and talk to her, she might want to tell you but doesn't know how to, so just pick your best words so you won't chase her away. We women are very sensitive and want to feel the other person is "all ears" even if you pretend to listen. Let her know how much you care for her and you'd do anything to make her feel better...EVEN if its bad news...
Good Luck!
2007-05-21 17:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋