its kinda unfair for me coz i never do nothin wrong i loved her so much but i think she the other too... the prob is im here in hawaii shes in the phil.. dats y its so hard its killin me right now...???? wat should i do?????????
2007-05-21 16:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by apk_milo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Happy people do not cheat. Not saying you did anything wrong but obviously your not doing something right. Talk to her and find out what is making her unhappy enough to feel the need to cheat.
2007-05-21 16:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your wife or girlfriend it doesn't matter. This is going to sound harsh but she needs to kick rocks as you can not trust her to not do it again. My daddy always told me that a leapord never changes it's spots. Once a cheater and all the other phrases which all say the same thing. If a person breaks the ultimate trust then it's time to get out, especially in this time of AID's herpes and all the lovely Hepititis A thru C. Sorry but that is how I see it.
2007-05-21 16:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by bill m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I easily have cheated formerly on my female chum various years in the past. Why I did it? common through fact the prospect offered itself in front of me. the guy became precise, the placing became precise and because there became no way in hell every person might ever understand approximately what I had achieved. Plus the lady I had cheated with became somebody I had the hots for (as she did for me) long formerly I even have been given with woman. in the tip it wasn't well worth it, even however my female chum on no account found out this is like if she did through fact she ultimately cheated on me cases 3 various years down the line and that i found out approximately it and rattling did it ever harm. Karma did certainly get closer me.
2016-10-31 01:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by catharine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The distance obviously isn't good for the relationship. You have a choice, to be heartbroken over someone who is not willing to stay faithful because you are not there. Or you can stay, understand that if she is just "having" sex to fill that particular need, (not falling in love) that it's just sex and not fault her for needing that desire to be intimate with someone, then stay. (as long as she isn't getting involved emotionally) Thats your choice, but if you do stay and you don't mind the sex thing, she needs to understand that you should be able to do the same.
It's a tough choice, but it's you that has to live with it, my opinion is it is unwise to be so far apart and still expect each person not to want to fulfill a sexual need or desire. I would personally look at my love the person, is sex worth losing a love over, or do you need to be closer to fulfill her everyneed. Or do you just let go? What is in your heart is the choice you need to make.
2007-05-21 16:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry about your situation. I have always had a zero tolerance policy on cheating in my relationships. If a guy cheats on me, he's not gonna get a chance to do it to me again. It's the hardest thing to think about in the world right now, I know, but you can't be her doormat. You deserve better than her.
2007-05-21 16:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by blzr20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I think long-distance relationships are the wrong way to go. I think she or you should have moved so she wouldn't have had the temptation of running to another guy with you being thousand's of miles away.
With that though she messed around with someone else personally that is relationship breaker!!!!
2007-05-21 16:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waist you time on someone who is with someone else. Obviously she doesn't love you even if she says she is sorry then why cheat? If she truly cared she would of talked about her feelings instead of going off with someone else. ITs time to break/divorce and move on and find someone that will love you faithfuly just don't give your heart away so easy ok
2007-05-21 16:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes and "some"learn from them.If you feel you can not trust her anymore then you need to let her go. But if you have that gut feeling telling you she's really sorry and you really want to be with her,work this out.There will be mountains that you will have to climb,working these things out only makes your relationship stronger
2007-05-21 16:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well nobodys perfect....but a long distance relationship can work if the two peoplel honestlyl ove eachother....id say this person doesnt truelly love you as she wouldnt of done this to you..she allowed herself to cheat and she did..shes responsable for her own actions..if i was you..id leave her..if she did it once she'll do it agian especially while your still seperated....she wants her cake an eat it to so to speak..and you deserve better....let her cheat on someone else...if theres no trust..theres no relationship and you cant stay with someone and be happy if you cant trust them..
2007-05-21 16:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to jsut keep loving her until you see her doing wrong for yourself. Don't let your emotion lead you out of the best relationship that you may have.
2007-05-21 16:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋