Hi everyone, i'm 17 years old and I have never had a boyfriend, i've been kissed a few times but never been into a relationship. I've approached like 10 guys with no success although I'm sure that it isn't because of my physical appereance since i've been told many times that i am pretty. Also, i constantly have guys around me trying to be with me but i don't like any of them even if they're cute and smart. Flirting with boys is easy for me as long as i'm not interested in them, but if I am, i feel that ansiety and unwillingness to eat.
I noticed that i'm maybe not prepared to have a boyfriend and maybe that's why i tend to seek for those who won't be interested in me they way i'd like, i'm not sure.
I'm 17, as i said and it shouldn't be a problem, i don't feel as i need a boyfriend, nevertheless i'm worried because it's the only problem I couldn't handle, yet, so I'm affraid that it will be difficult for me to find a men in the future or construct a relationship due to unexpirience.
2007-05-21 15:27:04 · 5 answers · asked by Betta Franka 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your still very very young. Some people mature at different levels. It doesn't mean that you will never find the right guy or get a date. You say flirting is easy as long as your not intereted in them, but get anxious when you feel like you might want to date. Maybe your a little unsure of yourself and lack some confidence. You may be one who just isn't interested in every guy who flirts with you, but it doesn't mean you have to be interested. Enjoy your youth, the right guy will come along , one that you will feel comfortable with and not anxious. Good luck.
2007-05-21 15:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY!!!!
I am 23 and I have only had one girlfriend, I am marrying her. I had those thoughts for the longest time and felt like there was no one out there for me and that I really should not be thinking about this thing called dating and marriage. The truth is, there is someone out there for everyone, the time will come when that person comes around and when that happens, you will know it I promise. I walked into my work and I saw her and I knew it at that moment that I would be marrying her even before I ever talked to her. Crazy, it isn't preposterous when it is God sending you the feeling.
2007-05-21 22:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by seminole832002me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need experience to be in a relationship! You just have to be ready, and find someone else who is equally ready. If you're coming across a bunch of boys who aren't responding to your flirts, maybe you are going after the wrong ones! Don't worry, you're still young and it will all come to you! Have fun while you're in High School!
2007-05-21 22:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by kimberlygrichard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any good relationship should be with someone who you can consider your best friend. relationships are based upon trust, honesty, and loyalty. If you have good people skills and maintain good friendships than a relationship should be no problem as long as you base it on the same principals. Hope that is some help :)
2007-05-21 22:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying! Because you have not found a boyfriend you have not had your heart broken. You have not had an unwanted pregnancy and you have not played mind games! (LOL) Seriously, your future is fine. I admire your ability to take things slowly. Enjoy yourself.
2007-05-21 22:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋