Ok so lately my bf hasnt been able too keep it up for very long...and im starting to get worried cause its bothering him. Does anyone know why? btw hes 19 and perfectly healthy.
2007-05-21 15:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Duckworth 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Lots of things can affect a man's ability to get an erection. He could have thoughts of insecurities because he hasn't been able to sustain an erection for long lately..so that can just perpetuate the problem. Did you say something to him lately that made him feel deflated? Maybe he has alot on his mind? Family issues? work issues? Just make sure you dont put him down for it....that would just make the situation worse. It could be just a mental thing... was he high or drunk? that could also affect it. So many variables.. would need to know a little more.
2007-05-21 15:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be under some kind of stress either at work or at home or at school. Stress can have a negative effect on a man's ability to get it up and keep it up. It would be wise for him to consult a physician rather than to walk around feeling bummed out about this.
2007-05-21 23:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the last 2 realationships I've been in, both men went through a period where they couldn't keep themselves hard. I'ts probably performance anxiety or stress. It'll probably pass. If it's still not cooperating after a few days call your doctor.
2007-05-21 22:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by thedevilsjester2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, at 19 he should be able to keep it up for quite awhile, he may be have some prostate issues get him to a urologist.
2007-05-21 22:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea why. Stress will make it worse. Performance anxiety
is stressful. Maybe change up what you all do together?
2007-05-21 22:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ED, possibly from anxiety. He needs to relax.
2007-05-21 23:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is mostly psychological at his age, maybe he works too much, studies too much. or maybe something is bothering him, so he can't concentrate on enjoying the sex.
it is unlikely that there is something wrong with him physically.
2007-05-21 22:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound very Scary he should be putting OUT at that age.
2007-05-21 22:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he had ed. sucks to be him.. and u.
2007-05-21 22:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by my_comp_sucks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋