I definately believe so. When I was married, I always loved my wife no matter what she did to me. Even after she 'ran off' with my 'friend', I still never got angry with her. I remember one time she came over to get some stuff and I just told her that even know I knew it was over between us, that I cared for her very much and wanted the best for her. She started crying and asked me why I was always nice to her no matter what. (During our marriage she said I was 'syurpy sweet' to her...'too sweet' in her mind) I told her it was because I made a commitment to love her no matter what, with no exceptions to the rule. I believe men need to make serious commitments to their wives when they get married to love them through good times and bad and not let their wives actions affect their actions. When men's behavior is not affected by their wive's behavior they have the freedom to do what is right always.
2007-05-21 14:45:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Is the second time that I agree with you. I like this soft side of Sandstorm.
Have a nice day.
2007-05-22 12:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by waterfairy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes a man should love his wife unconditionally, just as a woman should love her husband unconditionally. When you get married, you make that commitment that is for life.
Here is what I mean:
I have a friend who got married very early in her life and during the course of her marriage gave her first husband unconditional tender, loving care throughout the marriage but the sad part with this marriage is that it failed.
Right now, according to the last phone call that I made to her, she was ready to hear the famous question again so that she can be married for the second time!!!!
2007-05-22 02:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by conde_c_b 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Love between a husband and wife should be unconditional. But that doesn't mean one can't get angry with the other from time to time. Both women AND men are fallible. But getting angry and having the occasional fight do not mean they don't love each other. Unconditional love allows for disagreements and gives freedom to fight while allowing the relationship to continue and grow stronger.
2007-05-22 02:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, definitely. A love is something that it must be share. A commitment is like a promise that only God allow to brake. I didn't know Sand that you were married, she would've never ran away from you, you are a wonderful person and your love toward women is different, isn't that what us want? A man who loves us unconditionally? We are sometimes complicated. If you are "syrupy sweet" well I wish we can have more syrupy sweet men like you!!!
2007-05-22 02:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by . 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alright...Who are you , and what have you done with sandstorm?
Bring him back straight away
Alright, all kidding aside
Wow, you have impressed and shocked me all at once
I think if you get married the unconditional love should be a two way street
If not...someones going to get hurt
So many marriages fail
because people don't believe in the values I grew up with
You don't quit, work through your problems, no mountain is too high, and as long as we do it together...we can do anything
For me, there is no such thing as too sweet
Kindness should be followed by kindness
but in today's society, that's not taught either
If the going gets tough...get out
When there is love there is always forgiveness
and understanding
and there can be a happily ever after
Sorry ...that was a long answer
2007-05-21 17:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea / Princess Bitchalot 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Wow-- this is a really nice thing to say coming from you Sandstorm. That is unusual for you . Putting that aside,
yes I do believe husbands and wives both should love each other unconditionally. My sweetheart and I have that kind of love. He loves me without any doubts and with all the trust he has in him and I love him back the same.
2007-05-21 20:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
sonds like she was not appricative! Both parties should commit and love unconditionally. I agree with country boy. If you make a promise in Gods house you should not reak it. To me thats like breaking a promise to the lord. That is a sin!
2007-05-25 05:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I do. When I took my vows I vowed to love her for better or for worse in Gods house. To break a promise that I made in God's house is a sin. I will be with Samantha until death do us part. A man should also treat his wife like the treasure she is.
2007-05-23 20:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I wouldn't put up with cheating. Maybe if they were remorseful and seeking help. So I guess it'd be the same for a guy?
2007-05-25 00:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and wives should too. But I thought you said you were a chauvinist. Oh well, I completely agree with you.
2007-05-23 14:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋