okay, im on birth control. and not yesterdays sunday. the sunday before that. i believe the 13th. my last period ended. like 3 or 4 days after, my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time ever. im so afraid that im pregnant..just because it was the first time...and all. oh yeah and he did use a condom. now for the past week or something...im scared. crying. it feels like im going to throw up im so afriad. its driving me insane.
should i be afriad?
please help.
2007-05-21 12:53:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I think you chose to have sex too soon. I think your freaking out over nothing. But I applaud you for using birth control and the use of condoms to prevent sexually transmitted disease. That shows some thought and planning. Relax or the stress will make your period late too.
2007-05-21 12:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by trblueyess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you don't need to worry unless you miss a period. If you have a period then you are okay. Things to look for to know if you're pregnant or not: sick to your stomach, increase in appetite, tiredness, moodiness, loss of period, light period-such as spotting, tender nipples.
You should also not be taking a chance of getting pregnant at such an early age. Babies are a big responsibility, and they change everything in your life.
Are you ready to get up at 1:00 am, again at 3:00 am, and 5:00 am to feed and diaper a baby, that won't stop crying no matter what you do. Babies cry for at least 3 hours a day or more when they are a newborn. Not to mention even more than that when they are teething, and sick. They require alot of attention, and lots of love, so maybe you should rethink a couple of things the next time you decide to have sex, because you may actually want to go to college one day, and that will be very difficult if you are having to pay for daycare.
2007-05-21 13:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between taking your birth control pills properly and your boyfriend using a condom, the odds are hugely in favor of your not being pregnant. Congrats on playing safe.
However, it's pretty obvious that you're feeling totally stressed over the remote possibility, so upset that you're making yourself ill. This suggests to me that maybe you're not really ready for a sexual relationship, no matter how wonderful your boyfriend is. (I'm sure he is, or you wouldn't have allowed him to be your first.)
Make sure he understands how terrified you are of an unplanned pregnancy. If he's a good guy, he won't pressure you into anything that could lead to anything as stressful as what you're going through now. There are many ways to be physically intimate which can't get your pregnant.
2007-05-21 13:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way after my first time and I am also 15. But you are on birth control and used a condom. Don't worry unless you miss a period. I felt sick to, but it was just me worrying about it too much. I'm pretty sure you aren't pregnant. Wait another 2 weeks and go get an at home pregnancy test if you want to. But I had to false positives when I thought I was pregnant. So be careful for that.
2007-05-21 12:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all. You need to just calm down. If he used a condom then you should be fine. The "throwing up" you feel like doing is from stress. if ever you are unsure you take take a pregnancy test about 5 days before your next period. By the way congrats on being smart and using protection. that's very mature for both of you.
2007-05-21 12:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by LiLy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are feeling guilty about having sex because in the back of your head you know you should have waited, you are still a child and should not be having sex. At least you were responsible enough to use a condom too. But I am not giving you a pat on the back for being sexualy active.
2007-05-21 14:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by cat_tails_77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are perfectly fine especially since ur on birth control and he used a condom. you prolly jus feel like throwing up b/c ur nerves r shot. jus calm down u have nothing to worry about. I've been on birth control for 2 yrs now n have not gotten pregnant yet.
2007-05-21 13:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tabetha J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say when you started birth control. Also, you should be ok with use of a condom but as you know it's not 100%
You're more frightened of the unknown.
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2007-05-21 12:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno...have you been taking birth control??
theres probably no reason to be afraid, because a lot of people at my school have had sex, and noone has gotten pregnant.
But its too early to tell. if ur period doesnt happen in a month from the last one, maybe you should get some help...
2007-05-21 12:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your on birth control annnd he used a condom then you shouldnt be worried. there is over a 97% chance of not getting pregnant using birth control and a realllly high percentage using a condom. so using both was just being extra safe which is a really good thing
2007-05-21 12:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by boooo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋