Hello. I am bisexual and I was wondering how I go about meeting other lesbians (other than Internet) and clubs b/c Im 19 and cant get into most clubs..
I just got out of a really long relatioship with a guy and I want to go BACK to females for a while, I just dont want to approach a girl and offend her..
2007-05-21 10:40:52 · 19 answers · asked by You don't need to know that just yet... 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My husband and I use the swingers website. I am bisexual as well and I have met a few women through there already. I dunno what area you live in but there are several gay/lesbian/bi/straight clubs that cater to the alternative lifestyles in my area. One way to search is to use Yahoo Yellow pages and type in clubs, i know you are only 19 but most clubs at least in this area allow 18+ into them just no drinking until 21. Hope it helps
2007-05-21 10:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by starletwild 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously haven't met me and my girlfriend ;) I think you're just focusing on butch lesbians who aren't described or thought of as pretty - and you aren't branching out and thinking that the pretty girl walking next to you on the street could be gay. Get outside of that lesbian butch box and realize that ANYONE can be gay. I the road to finding your life partner is difficult for everyone. I mean, sure, people find them sooner in life and then some later so the time is different, but the road is the same in my opinion. One day, out of the blue, someone will come up and you'll feel it. You'll know. You can never be sure of when. I met my girlfriend (I can't stand the word partner) through my former roommate who actually had a crush on her first. She had long brown hair, brown eyes, tanned skin, great arms and a butt on her. It was everything I was looking for physically and when I looked into her eyes it was everything I was looking for emotionally. I had a girlfriend at the time who I wasn't so into and about two weeks later I went after the girl I knew I should be with. It's been a year now and my decision was the best one of my life so far! Good luck on your search. Patience is key.
2016-05-19 01:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you secure enough to go to a strip club? Most of the girls that dance are either bi or lesbians & are not afraid to say it if you're the shy type.Just a suggestion.Good luck! : p
2007-05-21 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
As you get older you'll be able to tell, but for now just try talking to the person and ask them. If they look offended then say your bf told you she was and you were just curious.
2007-05-21 10:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by AidansMa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u go to a college try joining a club, they usually have clubs for lesbians and bisexuals. or find clubs like these in oyur community, ones that usually have activists for gay rites
2007-05-21 10:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Y 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Check with your city or county. Most Public Parks offer Gay Pride Festivals at least once a year. Ours was last week.
....but im not a lesbian and i didn't go.
2007-05-21 10:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
try going to any lesbians conventions, im not sure if ther are n e night clubs because some states dont allow it
2007-05-21 10:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
There is a lesbian and gay section on here,it's in society and culture.
2007-05-21 10:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by King pin 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
go to a gay bar.......and obviously u cant get in cause ur age but hang out outside!!!
2007-05-21 10:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go to an all girl college, major in women's studies..
2007-05-21 10:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋