I would like the couple to overcome this situation for the sake of their two kids. He really loves her and has already forgiven her for cheating. I would like to talk to her and give her some advice. But I don't know how to start a conversation with her. Please give me some ideas.
2007-05-21 10:04:59 · 21 answers · asked by Izzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't say who you are to this couple, but I'd advise you stay out of it.
2007-05-21 10:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this, where your friend has already forgiven her, I wouldn't get involved. The only one that will get hurt is you for trying to help. Let them work it out themselves. Stay on the sidelines, and if one of them eventually comes to you, then you can give them your advice.
2007-05-21 17:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this, where your friend has already forgiven her, I wouldn't get involved. The only one that will get hurt is you for trying to help. Let them work it out themselves. Stay on the sidelines, and if one of them eventually comes to you, then you can give them your advice.
2007-05-21 17:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by ***ME*** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how to start the conversation? That's because you don't get to start the conversation. And even if she started it, on this evidence I'm thinking it could be difficult for you to make any comment without coming across as morally superior. So I'd suggest you advise counselling then change the subject.
2007-05-21 17:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ian S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous poster, stay out of it. Be her friend, but don't venture into the subject of the cheating. Believe me, there are two sides to every story, and you don't know either of them 100%. In a situation like this, I don't believe you can be 100% unbiased unless you are a professional counselor.
2007-05-21 17:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well it isnt really something you should get involved with.
If you really do feel you need to do something , you might want to convince her to go to a shrink and find out why she cheats...maybe she has low self esteem and needs some confirmation that continuous attention from different people gives her.
Other than that, there is nothing you can do cause she might get mad at you and you might end up losing a friend too
2007-05-21 17:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by evacivati1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is love and accept her and not judge her. Advice is best to come from the professional counselors. Friends should simply be a friend.
2007-05-21 17:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say anything until one of them ask for your advise,then don't take sides.If he has forgiven her what do you need to talk to her about.Sounds like talking is done now it's time to heal so if i were you i would let it go.
2007-05-21 17:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not appropriate for you.They need to go to couples counseling to find out the core problem.Cheating is a symptom of a bigger problem.
2007-05-21 17:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. It's not any of ur business and it's also a private matter between her and her hubby. If she brings it up that one thing, other than that, keep ur mouth closed. No one appreciates unsolicited advice.
2007-05-21 17:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Misty D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋