One of my guy friends likes one of my female friends. Okay, she totally hates him but he wants to change for her..totally stupid to begin with. He told all of my friends I talk bad about them behind their backs when he hardly even knows me, he's never around me, and so how the hell would he know. I want to tell him...I don't know...like, piss the **** off! or something but I just can't get myself to be mean to him. Would it be totally rude to tell him to go away or should I just ignore him or something?
Today he acted like nothing even happened between us...he's just so imature and an ***.
2007-05-21 09:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by catherinelovesyou92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, obviously, he doesn't have a clue, if she doesn't like him and he can't figure it out. and any guy that changes for a woman will find out the she won't respect him for it. If anything it will make it worst.
So why do you care about someone as clueless as this guy?
And if you so called friends are believing him over you, then you might need to find better friends.
Why should someone like that ruin your day, and get you angry, because he is a idiot? Don't lower yourself to his level.
2007-05-21 09:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Casual Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand that the fact that he wants to change for something else, but that's way too stupid. What I would do is ignore him and let your friend, that he likes, to deal with him, since you said she hated him. If you already told your friend about what he wants to do, then that's good. But if you haven't, I suggest that you should. If your friend does start to like him because he "changed," just wait a bit and his old habits will come back into action and then your friend will see through him. I guess that is all I can give you (of my opinion).
2007-05-21 09:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by shawnkiddo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he is immature? You are talking in circles. I cannot tell what is going on. He is not a "friend" if you say he hardly knows you.
Just the way you are sounding, is it possible that you talk behind other peoples back and this is coming back at you?
2007-05-21 09:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a step returned, and breath. attempt to no longer think of roughly regardless of it relatively is it relatively is angering you. turn on the television or watch a humorous vid on youtube, or perhaps crank up your favourite tunes. Distraction interior the warmth of the 2d of anger is the main important to getting your self to cool down basically a sprint. If this is not working, punch a pillow some circumstances, or choose for a jog. Get that power out!
2016-11-04 22:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would tell him what I feel because he has no right saying things that are not ture just to get next to someone plus he need to be put into his place before things get worst if you dont do any thing he might keep telling people lies about you you girl put that lil boy in his place turst me he need it and it would make you feel better
2007-05-21 09:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna really tick him off? You just have to love him. No, I don't mean FALL in love with him, but love your enemies like you love your friends. He'll get so ticked off when you're really nice and happy towards him, because he'll know his plan to hurt you is backfiring. Trust me, this works! He'll get that painful guilt gut. Good luck = D
2007-05-21 09:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by poppyseed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definetly confront him and go off on him so that he can see how badly he upset you and then maybe he'll stop. And also throw in how that other chic has no interest in him
2007-05-21 09:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him, don't play his childish game, just stop talking to him and he'll probably come running back because he'll need a friend to talk to.
2007-05-21 09:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by NoClue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have resolvement somehow. So, you are going to have to confront him or let it go. How important is to you to tell him. Sometimes it is worth it. Don't let people walk on you!
2007-05-21 09:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it-he's super immature.
2007-05-21 09:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋