I want to get away from this drunk idiot I am married to. I have 20 dollars to my name. He causes me to lose jobs due to arguring and his drinking I am a nurse and make good money and have put all my money into our home, I have made up to 3000 dollars in two weeks time and it all has went to support anything we needed like food personal itiems and gas car notes I'm very free giving when I am working. But, I can only hold a job 3 months with this man. I throw my hands up and say forget it, and I quit. I want out so bad but don't have a job or money. When he just works he want give me but 20 dollars for a month after I have sent hunderds and thousands on bills and what not I WANT OUT NOW OR I AM GOING TO DIE
2007-05-21 08:53:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have quit so many jobs there is no where else for me to work
2007-05-21 08:54:32 · update #1
Just the stress of him is enough to make you cut your throat
2007-05-21 09:12:15 · update #2
A shelter!? HAHA! No one wants to live in a shelter. With your credentials I can tell a shelter is just not going to happen unlesss maybe he was hitting you or something. Anyway, find a friend or family member in another town where you can start fresh and find a job that doesn't know your reputation. Find some people to give you some excellent references and hide enough money to get you on the first thing smokin' out of there. If you are afraid he will find the money buy money orders and make them out to yourself and mail them to the person your trust the most. When you move they can send them back or hopefully that the person you will stay with they can just hand them to you.
2007-05-21 09:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by ...huh... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are always other places to go, so be prepared to pack the car and do so. But don't go quite yet -- work a bit longer and save up some cash. Put it into an account of your own at some nationwide bank, and don't tell him about it, let alone give him any of it. With a couple of grand squirreled away, you can head for the hills. In the meantime, investigate living in a shelter.
2007-05-21 16:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand how his getting drunk is causing you to loose jobs. Especially when you say you quit them, not fired. You need to find a job. If you are a registered nurse, that shouldn't be too hard. Work it for a while, give him nothing, save some money and bail on him. Seems pretty simple to me.
2007-05-21 16:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Hank S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have family or someone you could go stay with. Who owns the house? If its in your name, throw him out and get a restraining order. Try selling some of your stuff to get enough money to get out. Get a credit card and use that!!! Worry about paying it later. There is always a way!!!! Go to a battered womens shelter if you have to get away.
2007-05-21 15:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, that man isn't worth living with. If u dont leave him, u wont get a good hold on your life.
Leave him and the environment u are now. Start a new life elsewhere.
Goodluck
2007-05-21 16:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by sholly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start squirlling money away that he doesn't know about and when you get a new job don't tell him where you work. Or go get a restraining order and file for divorce. Get a new job but don't tell him where it is and if he calls you or bugs you call the cops.
2007-05-21 15:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right Im male and it makes me sick thinnking of how you suffer ! I say contact a shelter in another town and go there and get on your feet again . File for divorce and get on with your wonderful life .
2007-05-21 15:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have family? if so move to the farthest awy family memebr possible, and restart you career. Or move in with a friend and still be a nurse.
2007-05-21 15:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by marya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, Grey Eyes. You will make it work somehow on your own and you will have regained your self respect. That is the most important thing of all. Just leave him . . . .
2007-05-21 15:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to ask yur friend to let yu borrow money when yu get some money get out from there yu dont want to stay in a hell
2007-05-21 15:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by rameshp999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋