okay there is this guy i like and he asked me out then i said ill have to think about it. then we went to a party and he asked my friend out! what should i do????? i really like him
2007-05-21 08:43:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, you could simply tell him that you have thought about it and you would like to go out with him. However, at this point you would risk losing your friend over him. Another thought is - is he worth it? I mean really if he was in such a hurry to go out with someone that he couldn't wait for your answer......
2007-05-21 08:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by venusintn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you did say you'd have to think about it. i'm not sure how old you are, but it could be that the guy is just immature (no matter what age you are) and figures you'll get mad that he asked the other girl, and want him "more."
OOOR...it's a dating world. many guys and girls date around with 3 or 4 different people. granted, he doesn't NEED to be dating your friend....but yeah.
personally, i'd be like, well he wasn't interested enough in me to not ask out other girls until i gave him an answer, so...yeah- i'm not going to worry about him too much.
have fun.
good luck.
2007-05-21 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by ilpbab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should talk to him first off. He probably didn't have a clue that you really liked him because you had to think about going out with him.
You should call and let him know how you feel. Why would you expect him to wait for your call to move on. If he likes you he will still be interested in you, unless your friend moves in and he felt the same interest in her.
2007-05-21 15:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like this guy but you both we went out and he asked your friend out the same night what did your friend say? That's the decision you have to make because he took you with him and he does this. You have your answer. Maybe he isn't the one for you. Men are strange but this isn't right.
2007-05-21 15:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of variables to this question: did this guy know you and this girl were friends? If so,leave his triflin *** alone! If he didnt you cant blame a guy for exploring his options especially since you were playing games! If you really liked this guy you should've been up front with instead of "thinking about it"! Better luck next time!!!
2007-05-21 15:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by erica k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long, think wrong
Next time don't play hard to get. If you want to go out with someone go.
A no one care for the games, and as you've seen there's always someone able to take your place.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
If you asked me out and I said I'd think about it, and then you asked my friend or anyone else out and they took you up on your offer, who's fault is it I not going out with you????
Hope this helps
2007-05-21 15:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by walker9842 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
UhOh, Maybe if you like him you should have jumped at the chance to go out with him. You might be a little jealous of your friend and that is why you like him all the sudden. Good luck.
2007-05-21 15:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tall Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friend said yes.....................move on......you f*cked it all up for putting it off!! If your friend says no, then make it sound like you are available and want to go out because if you don't go then he will find another person to ask and you might just miss the chance to be with him!!!
good luck!!!
2007-05-21 15:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOrget him.He's no good.How can a guy ask someone and then go chasing someone else?..That is rude. Look for someone that has patience and really is interested in you. THis guy sound like he only wants to hook up for sex..dont be played.
2007-05-21 15:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by carebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the expression " You snooze, you lose" You gave him the impression that you didn't care for him when you told him you had to think about it. Your indecision is your friends gain! Maybe the next time you won't d!ck around with your answer!
2007-05-25 14:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋