2007-05-21 08:35:00 · 19 answers · asked by pickle l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That arguing thing is long time passed now I avoid her. I don't live with her. But when I do visit or talk to her. She seems to think one should be a mind reader. While growing up she was a bad example of what a mother should be. Through the years I have tried to understand certain things that made me resent her growing up. Years pass and the woman still hasn't learned from past mistakes. Today I called her. And like other times she has someone say she's not at home. But when she calls she expects one to be the good daughter. So I thought forget it then. Now she'll have to wait till I feel like calling again. Which we''ll not be no time soon. I agree with you I think the same of mine.
2007-05-21 09:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Pickle. Well to me when I had fight with my mom before, whereby she had check some of personnal things which I don't like and it is a very special things from my friend. When I got to know about it I was first extreamly mad and in fact i had also told " do you have any manners". After fighting with her I just sat quite and she did too, but at the end I went up and explain to her and we start to talk as per normal again and she said Iknow it was my fault. Try this and hope it might help you...............
ALL THE BEST.............
2007-05-21 08:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is probably not crazy. You are probably a teenager and you and your mother just have different ideas about things....everything more than likely. You want to do things your way, and she wants you to do things her way. Which as a mother probably means taking responsibility for certain things, and acting considerate of other people and their property, etc,,,,,, You probably have a normal relationship. I would say you will have to be more specific on the crazy part if you want anything more concrete than this.
2007-05-21 08:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by zento1110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this, "will you wish you never made that statement when your mother is gone?" You may think she'll be there forever but BAM one day reality will smack you in the face and you'll regret it. You aren't perfect, she isn't perfect. Don't take things for granted because you are young. Once your parents are gone things are NEVER the same. You feel guilty waking up every day and they can't, you feel guilty when you start to eat and they can't, you feel guilty when you laugh.....get my point. At least your mom is here for you to have to deal with. Talk to her instead of fighting.
2007-05-21 08:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fight with my mom too. we ALL do. when you fight with her..just calm down and try to understand her part of the story. Just rememeber..dont get to mad..because you only have one mom..and i bet whatever you are fighting about isnt as important as having a mom.
2007-05-21 08:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to understand her.
thats what shes trying to do ewith you
latley me and my mom are at it all the time
this is whats made it better
step back and look at all the things she does for you honestly youll be suprized i thauagh my mmom was anoing and needy and a pain but she does so much for me and she there for me when i need her and so i try to bve there for her
just remmember when she needs you but you had plans but you have to stay in that she gave up so much for you and you can always hang out with friends later
yes i know its easy for me to say and hared for me to do but that shows that you care that your at least trying to fix it and you feel bad about it that will definitly help you both come to a place where the fighting ends.
ps
i know it totally doesnt seem like it buyt your mom can be really cool and understanding.
belive me i know.
2007-05-21 08:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pease dont fight with ur mom u dont know how pecious she is. She does everything 4 ur well wise. I know u will not know now but sometime later u will feel and dont suffer @ that time
2007-05-21 09:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by asif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say without more details.
It depends on your age, and what you're fighting about.
Short answer is yes. And she may "seem" crazy, but there may be more to it than it seems.
2007-05-21 09:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We fight a lot just try to calm down later
2007-05-21 09:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by sadie v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fight with my mom everyday i think it just are age cuz all of my friends and i all was complan about are mom's really it not ur falt but just be happy and in a good mood..
and everything should work out
good luck
2007-05-21 08:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by no0fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋