Why does life have to be so sucky??

Question

It seems like as soon as things look like they will be okay, something comes along and screws it all up....why?????

Answer 1

Awe sweetie, it took me years to realize just the opposite!
Life does not suck!
It blows!

Answer 2

I understand but you are very young and it seems like this is the way it will always be. Nothing comes along. You let it. Take control of your life and do not let others interfere so much. It will happen. Life will not always treat you fair. It will throw your soul up on the roof top where you can't get at it. It will cut you down so bad that you could sit on the curb and swing your legs. But all of this is passing. Give it time.

Answer 3

it is called fate, karma whatever. Do right and the right things will happen to you. Try looking back to a nice thing that you have done. Then follow the string of events leading up to your sucky moment. Did you continue to do nice things along this path or did you do something sucky yourself.
What we do is in direct reflection to what we get.
Simply stated: If you do nice things, nice things will happen to you.
Since we are not perfect though bad things are bound to come back and bite us in the a s s.

Answer 4

My favorite quote reads... "There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness."
-Carl Jung

And, just to go further into it. We really wouldn't appreciate the good times in life if they were all we knew. So, think of these hard times as a way of truly appreciating life once it gets better. (and it WILL get better)

Cheer up. :)

Answer 5

Try modifying your expectations. Things can only be screwed up if you you were expecting or anticipating something other than what happened.

Expectations are a source of frustration and disappointment.

You now have the ability to choose how frustrated and disappointed you will be in the future.

Answer 6

If you don't taste the sour then you don't know sweet. If you don't know dirty then you don't know clean. Life is like a tennis match, when the ball comes to you, you must hit it.

Ying Yang or like the 7 fat cows and the 7 starving cows. Sometimes I think we humans are the planet's and our own worst ememies.

Have faith, be positive and everything will look differently. The world is what we make of it, and our attitude dictates our fate.

Answer 7

i know what you mean. life definately sucks sometimes, but sometimes it's okay. i think that when things look really bad, it might just be because we aren't ready for a change or it's not how we thought it would be. i think everything ends up working out in the end though.

Answer 8

We are living in an constantly changing world. Just understand that everything around you is changing, and that you have no control over any of it. No one does. If, based on that, you can change your expectation about life, you might be happier.

Answer 9

The bad times in your life, is for you and all to appreciate the good times. Forget the bad and always try to remember the good times.

Answer 10

this is the way life is. i am 32 years old and my life has always felt like this at this point i think life just sucks and always will. just my opinion.