i've always been a lil chunky as a kid...but as i grew up I grew into my curves...i'm not chunky anymore but because of my curves I kinda look fat. i was watching a movie about Karen Carpenter and I thought to myself "I want to be thin like her"
for some reason I want to be anorexic.
When i was 13 I developed bulimia but I want to be anorexic....well I DON"T want to but i cant fight the feeling. how do i fight this...and plz dn't say get help because my parents said that if i got sick again they would stick me in a hospital and forbid my friends and my fiancee to see me
2007-05-21 08:11:55 · 14 answers · asked by **Angel_Eyes** 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my fiance says he loves me for who i am...that he fell in love with the girl i am now...that he doesnt want someone twiggy...but i still feel weird
2007-05-21 09:07:57 · update #1
You belong in a hospital. You need help.
2007-05-21 08:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The feeling is mind over matter. If you don't think about it then the feeling won't be there. I am also a curvy woman and in my experience there has been a lot of women who have said that they would like to have curves like me. Girl just embrace it and if that doesn't work then eat six small meals a day and workout. You would be surprise how working out is food for the soul.
2007-05-21 08:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some mental help. Karen Carpenter is dead because of her anorexia. its not in any way healthy. if you have curves now, then show them off and tell the world how great you look just the way you are. there is a fine line to what is thin and what is dangerously thin.
most people who are anorexic are dead as a doornail and look very sick no matter which way you look at it.
2007-05-21 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by hot_hermione 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be happy with who you are! I sound like Barney the dinosaur, but it's true! You have friends and family, and a fiancee! You can't get better than that! Talk to your friends for support, and keep reminding yourself that you don't want to be in a hospital away from all who love you. Good luck!â¥
2007-05-21 08:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by badrabbit108 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
curves don't make you look fat they make you look healthly and guys love curves.....Karen Carpenter looked unhealthy and sick because she was...Why would you want to look like that? If you keep feeling that way you need to be in a hospital or therapy because you are not well and need help.....
2007-05-21 08:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you DO need help. You just dont want to admit it's your fault. You do need help. You wont get to see the people you care about for a long time, but in the end, if your fiancee REALLY loves you, they'll wait for you. if they dont, they never really cared for you in the first place. if that is the case, then SCREW THEM! If not, I hope for your happiness in the years to come.
2007-05-21 08:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by hotbigtoad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunately you do need help. Karen Carpenter died from that disease. You don't want that. If you can't talk to your parents then talk to your fiancee. Just talk to someone.
2007-05-21 08:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen...I used to be that way and it hurts your bones, your mind, everything. Boys like girls with a little meat on them and yes, it is so much sexier. Its something you have to work at everyday, just like alcoholism, or drug addition. It is not easy. Won't ever leave you. But, just like all people who have something to care about, you must try and keep trying.
Good luck and God bless. angels fly here.
2007-05-21 08:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you check yourself in your parents have no rights over you, that is of course if your old enough to check yourself in, which is assumed in the fact that you have a fiancee...
getting rid of extra mirrors always made a few friends of mine feel better about the thought, sorta puts it off the mind
2007-05-21 08:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Hi there. 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Please take care of yourself. You are beautiful as you are, as God made you. Not all guys want to be with a model. I think we'll see a change with guys desiring women with natural curves because it IS the natural way.
Trust me.
2007-05-21 08:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nels 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to get help... you cant do this on your own... It is ok to ask for help. Karen Carpenter would still be alive if she asked !
2007-05-21 08:15:42 · answer #11 · answered by ncbound 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋