I am looking for a job and i cannot find one. ive been looking on craigs list, temp jobs, ihire.com, yahoo jobs, google jobs, snag a job, courier classified, ny times, bay news, russian news papers, dice, monster.com, findajob, get that job, jobs.com, all-employees.com, careerbuilder.com, and i have also looked on campus in my college and also ive signed up for this program that helps you find jobs while you're in college, such as work study and paid internships. Ive been looking for 5 months now, and i cant find anything. what can i do to succeed in finding a job? ive also been thinking about stripping at a lezbian club. ive been pole dancing at home for about 10 months and im very good at it. i cant do waitressing because i cant stand on my feet for 8 hours at a time. my last resort is escorting, but i really dont want to do that.
help please.
2007-05-21 06:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Small Business
** I have been going to businesses and filling out applications.
2007-05-21 06:59:24 · update #1
Escorting usually is a very quick path to prostitution. The monetary offers are very enticing and almost impossible for a girl to refuse. The escorting is usually done in a hotel room for a client who wants a massage. Just you and him alone, big money, what do you think is going to happen. Keep your pride and dignity. You will find a decent job "if you really want one". Keep trying.
2007-05-21 06:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to do it, then don't.... you wouldn't be able to handle it. A successful escort has to love sex to be successful. Being an escort is not something anything should do to make a couple bucks real quick. The mental stage of your mind, your thought process, the investments you have to make, the time that goes into it....... A one hour appt isn't really one hour. It can consist of several hours which you don't get paid for. The hour is with the gentleman, the rest of the hours is getting yourself ready, driving to wherever it is you need to go. And what a lot of girls don't understand about the business is that you DON'T HAVE to see anyone you don't want to. Some get the idea that an escort is a hooker, plain and simple, that will sleep with anyone who can scrape up a few hundred bucks. .....Couldn't be further from the truth. You should talk to experienced independent girls and ask them questions.
2007-05-22 23:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by seattle_lili 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything wrong with exotic dancing. I've known many respectable girls that have done so to get through school or to feed their kids. Just don't get caught up in the role and lose your values as a result. I wouldn't recomend the escort thing though...it easily leads to prostitution or expectations of prostitution from clients...and THAT really isn't very safe.
2007-05-21 06:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girls have supported themselves stripping and going to college. But would you respect yourself if you did this?
IMHO working at McDonalds is better than stripping.
Being an escort is a step below stripping... no matter what you call it still wind up being a prostitute.
Surely your college has some kind of resources to help you find a job.
I would also suggest you look at what is keeping you from being successful in find the kinds of jobs you have been applying for.
2007-05-21 06:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put the $500 in the offering plate, tear up the business card and return the Bible to it's proper owner if that can be determined..
2016-03-19 09:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention going into the doors of business and asking if they are hiring & then applying
Wow... like this is rocket science or what
if ya wanna strip for a living then do so (you can't be on your feet for 8 hours to wait tables but you can wear stilleto heals & gyrate around a pole.... one has to wonder)
if ya wanna f*** or give bl**j*bs for a living then do that
In the end... you are the only one that has to be accountable to you
Consider... are you willing to tell your parents & later in life your kids??? if you can answer "YES!" to that question... then proceed... if you can't answer "YES" to that question then you better save up alot of money for psychotherapy once you have
I personally don't care what you choose to do.... I am not going to have any changes in my life over what you choose to do
If you get AIDS & die, then you do
If you get Herpes & then have to deal with a life-long illness, then you do
If you can't live with yourself because you got pregnant with some "john's" baby and you decide to commit suicide because you can only limit the choices on who the daddy is down to 15 men... well then that is your choice
As long as you can ACCEPT ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR CHOICES... THEN DO WHAT THE H*LL YOU WANT
2007-05-21 06:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bama 5 · 4⤊ 5⤋
do not stoop low and disrespect yourself. try going to jobs and telling the managers you are willing to work here at any position and that you will work really hard.
2007-05-21 06:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean you can't find anything? There are hundreds of jobs out there at any given time. If all you want is an easy buck or a job stripping or hooking, then have it honey. But don't tell me you can't find honest work out there.
2007-05-21 06:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 7⤋
Do it! do it! do it! do it!
2007-05-21 06:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋