okay I am going through Divorce right now and my husband is going after me for his credit card bill and thats about it from all I know about it and all I want is my dog and medical bill payed, he is saying I am not going to get the dog or half of anything, how can I do this without a lawyer because I want it to end as quickly as possible. Everyone is like oh you will get half and your dog and ur bill payed off and my ex husband is all like you wont get your dog or anything at all, he says he has ways to prove that I never liked the dog and it wont be given to me. How do I get my dog back and get my stuff and just have him out of my life!?!?! Plz help!
2007-05-21 05:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by ~*Twilight Star*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a lawyer and stop letting him manipulate you.
You guys are fighting over the custody of a dog??? Good thing you didn't have kids.
Have your name removed from his credit cards, or any other accounts, and do the same about removing him from any of your financial obligations.
Debt? That may be split in half.
2007-05-21 05:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a lawyer...the only way a divorce works without one is for you both to agree.
2007-05-21 12:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to anybody else; talk only to your attorney. And, your soon-to-be ex will be paying for your attorney. Go to Women's Resource Center and ask for legal assistance if you need to get started on the right foot. Don't try to do this divorce on your own.
2007-05-21 12:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through a divorce last year too. I kept one step ahead of him in everything, I knew all the time what he was about to do or thinking of doing or planning. I was able to turn things around in my own favor within days ;) - there is a secret to it, and I will share it with you if you'll email me on lindaking25@yahoo.com
2007-05-21 12:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hire an attorney if he is not willing to compromise. Think....., are you better off paying $5,000 for an attorney or legal fees (not sure of cost) , or is it better that you let him intimidate you and take everything. Decide what is right for you. GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-21 12:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a lawyer...its the only way to get waht you want and that is not a guarantee but since your requests are limited, you should get them
2007-05-21 12:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by michiedem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a lawyer
2007-05-21 12:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer........or agree to everything....your only two choices
2007-05-21 12:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋