a man that will want a women with a kid and is a little ofer weight. one that want to be treated the same way she does.
2007-05-21 04:46:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes there is. Everybody has someone that they are meant to be with. It is often just a matter of having patience to wait for the right guy to come along.
2007-05-21 04:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by meltie6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I was in your same situation and have an incredible husband. What I did to find my "perfect man" simple. I made a mental note of all the things that were truly important to me for a partner as well as things that were unacceptable. I dated and had fun but wouldn't commit to anyone until i found someone that had the qualities and standards that were on my list. I didn't settle for someone else. Wasting your time with someone who isn't right for you not only leaves you with emotional baggage, you could be missing an opportunity to find a great guy. Love yourself, take care of yourself, dress in a way that makes your feel good, fix your hair, put on your make up, live your life. He is out there somewhere, you just need to be out there where he can find you. Go places you like, do things that you like to do. You are more likely to find someone more like you there than those cliche' places like the chance meeting at the grocery store. Have fun until then though, just because you aren't in a relationship doesn't mean you can't be happy. The more confident and outgoing you are the more likely you are to find a partner that is too.
2007-05-21 12:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by del d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is, but believe it or not, YOU have got to be picky! And be more careful than you would if you were alone. Some guys think that single moms are "easy picking" because they're lonely for a man. Don't let anybody take advantage of you.
Don't settle. Make sure the man loves you AND your child, and will not make you have to choose between him and the kid in his words or actions (choose the kid!). Don't change who you are to be what he wants, and if he asks you to, run away. Don't give up on your life dreams and goals...he should want to help you achieve them.
If you feel good about yourself, and take care of yourself, a good man will come along. Good luck!
2007-05-21 11:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, we all have to hope that there's somebody out there for us. If we give up hope, we have nothing left. I am a soon-to-be-divorced woman with a kid and also a little on the chubby side, but I am determined to get back in the game and find someone who will be a good partner and a good step-father.
It is so hard to be alone, as I'm learning, but you will be fine. Don't jump into something with someone who isn't good enough; be patient until you find the man for you. Good luck,
2007-05-21 11:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Trisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay Sweetheart, I have always been a big girl my whole life. I was the one all through school that never had a bf and actually never wanted one in High School. But after I graduated I started to long for the feeling of having someone. So I tried to start dating. When I say tried I really looked hard and tried really hard to find someone. I had a couple of guys break my heart and then I found this guy that I was with just because he took interest in me and I "thought" that I loved him. And I was with him on and off for almost four years!!!!! Was the WORSE relationship ever. We fought constently! Agrued over everything and he tried to change me in EVERY WAY!!! SO I would lie about it and then do it behind his back. I would eventually get caught and that would make things even worse!!! SO FINALLY we parted ways and he moved away which was for the best. I continued to talk to him on the phone but he lived so far away that there was no intimate contact that could keep us together. So I moved on. I met up with an old friend of mine that I had went to high school with and she was going through some hard times with her man. Well they ended up breaking it off to and we moved in together. HAD THE BEST TIMES OF MY LIFE with her. We lived together for about a year, not quite, but almost a year. And we was going out and having a blast every weekend (NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN!!!!) And that's when I found him (MR. RIGHT) I was afraid of course cause He was GORGEOUS!! TOO Hot for me!! And I had only been broke up with my ex for about a year! But We sat there and talked all night like we was the only two in the bar. And when he put his number in my phone I never called him cause I thought he was just drunk! =0) But he came back to the same bar the next weekend and found me again and asked me why I never called him! I told him that I didn't call guys that gave me there numbers at the bar, So he took me outside and gave me his number. That was on June 3rd 2005 and we have been together ever since! He is my everything and treats me like his queen!!! He has never once tried to change me and loves EVERY PART OF ME!!!!! SO the answer to you question is...YES you will find Your Prince Charming someday. And it will be when you least expect it!!! and I will tell you what everyone told me all the time when I would ask the question "How do you know when you find him?" and that answer is YOU'LL JUST KNOW WHEN YOU KNOW!! And it's true you will know when you find it "It's the FOREVER kind of love!"
2007-05-21 12:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kassie D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking so hard... Check yourself. Do you, take care of you & yours. Problem w/ most women is our focus is on finding "that someone special" so much so it becomes a second job... Eventually you'll get tired working 2 jobs & you'll end up w/ sloppy performances...
So, granted, you'll get what you're looking so desperately for. Just may not really be what you want.
Read the book of Ruth in the Bible...Study Ruth's profile & her story...She wasnt trying to catch a man's attn or even looking for 1...Boaz---he found her! She got someone worthy of her heart, love & devotion. HE found her! not the other way around...She kept busy tending the fields. Taking care of her & hers.
If you feel the desire to look for that perfect someone special... Look for, learn of, & make a commitment to Christ. Jehovah is the only perfect... without him you'll live a life as lost as the one you find to be with.
You get that which you ask for & seek... Seek Perfection, Seek Jehovah & His kingdom & he will provide all else. Make the Lord your main course, he will bless you with the overflow in all other areas of your life.
2007-05-21 11:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by 4everFaithful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big world out there. There are 300 million people in the USA and 1/2 of them are men. Number is not a problem.
2007-05-21 12:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. there is a man out there for everyone. Not all men like the same "type" of woman. I was almost 300lbs when I met my husband. I also have a daughter who is not biologically his. He loves me more then anything. Just make sure you wait for the "right one" He is out there. You deserve to be treated like a queen..... to a man who you want to be your king.
Good luck
2007-05-21 11:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby gurl, Have faith honey talk to Jesus and ask him to send you a good man ! There is someone for everyone ! Put Jesus first in your heart and in your life and the rest will come at the right moment ! "Have faith" !
2007-05-21 12:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there...there is one...I found mine when I was not looking...had 3 kids...had given up on thinking there was happily ever after...overweight and not much to look at...along came my prince and its been great(not always perfect nothing is) but he thinks I am beautiful has been a great dad and I never thought I could be sooo happy...
2007-05-21 11:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by michiedem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋