how can i get a time sheet of my wife were she works without her finding out?

Question

for example when she goes in what times she goes out. and see if shes working the day she is

Answer 1

You can't other than her paystub she brings home

Answer 2

Wear a fake moustache then walk casually to her place of employment. Then just go to the filling cabinet where time sheets are stored and take. If anybody ask you, just tell them you are the "Vice President of time sheet stuff for the Department of Homeland Security". Works every time. Your wife will not know because of the fake moustache.

Answer 3

If you are concerned about your wife and the hours she's working you both need to sit down and have a heart to heart. Trying to go behind her back will only backfire on you and will just cause more problems. It sounds like you two could use some communicating. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

I am going through some trust issues with my spouse. I've asked begged and pleaded but so far no results...but if you haven't tried that yet...then you should. Sometimes if you just sit down and talk to your loved one and show your concern that person may give in. Good luck, hope it all turns out well for the both of you.

Answer 5

The answer is "no." this information is proprietary to her company and you can't get it without a subpoena.

But that's not the problem, really.

Why do you want this information? Do you suspect her of something?

Tell me, do you:

Check the mileage on her car?
Check the gas tank?
Try not to let her go out by herself?
Expect to be told where, with whom, etc. when she does go out by herself?
Obsess about her when she is out by herself?
Speak ugly to her in private but are sweet to her in public "to keep up appearances?"
Suspect her of flirting with every man you two run into?
Get upset if she meets a friend for coffee?
Get upset if her business takes her out of town?
Get upset if she wants to take a college course that keeps her out of the house two nights a week?
Have a hard time believing her answers?
Are you known for having a bad temper?

These and more are sure signs of a controlling, abusive person.

If you're treating your wife like this, it's time to end this marriage. Do this before you go off the deep end and hurt her - unless you want to spend time in prison for assault.

Answer 6

I wouldn't recommend it. Do you have valid reason for doing this? Do you suspect that she is cheating on you, or are you just insecure? You should know that is an extreme invasion of privacy. You are asking for a divorce if you do something as sneaky and shady as that. I know if I found out that my fiance' was keeping tabs on me, then I'd hit the ceiling. If it is very necessary, then I would recommend hiring a private investigator.

Answer 7

If you have a suspicion because of something that happened, I would surprise her at work and tell her to show you around... Hopefully she will show you where she punches in and out and you can look at her time sheet out of curiousity...

Just a suggestion...

But if you are just insecure, talk to your wife and tell her what you are feeling... suspicion can make you crazy... Good Luck

Answer 8

Try following her to work, that is easier. But really, if you do not trust her, then you have bigger problems. Try asking her to tell you the truth. Trust is the most important thing in a marriage. You should talk to her before checking up on her.

Answer 9

You can't.

When I was working, I didn't punch a timeclock....I did my job and sometimes that meant extra time. I also used work as a way to get away from my ex....because I was treated a lot better at work than I was at home....

Something for you to think about, I'm sure.

Answer 10

Do have a sit-down talk with her. If you dont trust her maybe you two should try counseling....Just a thought. No need to check up on her.

Answer 11

are you serious why would you want to do that? grow up!! if you are in a relationship and especially if she is your wife you need to trust her 110% whats wrong with you?