its painful wen making love with my girlfriend sometimes. the problem is will i loose my sex drive and would it be a bad idea to do this. Serious Answers Only Please
2007-05-21 04:13:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask your doctor or urologist. Asking that here is like getting plumbing advice from your barber.
2007-05-21 04:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you can have sex, but it will never be normal. I don't know why you want this. Do what you need to do, but meake sure you understand. Unfortunately, the main risk of circumcision is often ignored. There is 100% chance that circumcision will damage the male genitals as to function and pleasure. Not mentioning this fact is tantamount to spreading misinformation. This surgery takes away main male pleasure zones including mechanisms that help gain and maintain an erection. The foreskin is not just skin and does not just protect the glans (head). Circumcision is now known to ablate the most sensitive parts of the male genitals. This surgery takes away the main male pleasure zones with about 20000 fine touch and stretch nerve endings amputated. The foreskin has several parts including the ridged band that is great for ones pleasure (that is why nutters like Kellogg wanted to chop em off, to curtail masturbation), Masturbation is important for a mans physical and mental health. The ridged band directly contacts the vagina for very great pleasure all around. The dynamics of sex and the actual mechanism of the penis are drastically changed by circumcision. The foreskin can normally be slipped all the way, or almost all the way, back to the base of the penis, and also slipped forward beyond the glans. This wide range of motion is the mechanism by which the penis and the orgasmic triggers in the foreskin, frenulum, and glans are stimulated. The only touch organ possessing as rich erogenous innervation as the foreskin is the clitoris. Circumcision deprives man of 2/3ds of the main erogenous zone constituted of the foreskin and the glans. BTW, the other risks (besides loss of sexual function, ED, PE and loss of PLEASURE) include curved or misshapen erection, painful erection, botches of all sorts (many requiring redo) and death. Boys DIE each year in the US from this sick practice.
2016-05-18 22:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a personal Q: so I will try to make this easy as I can.
Can you pull back the foreskin without it hurting or is it very tight?
If the foreskin is tight then yes you need the operation (my son had to go get his checked out)
If you have what the call loose skin around the area & it is tight the doctor will book you in to see a specialist & they will determin whether or not in needs done, You have to explain how tight/painful etc.
If the answer is none of the above the foreskin moves freely no pain when pulling back then it could actually be your girlfriend.
There are a lot of women with actually a very tight hole so to speak if that is the case you would not need anything done. You should be able to get 4 fingers in & able to move freely that is the test between yourself & your girlfriend Sorry if this sounds perverted just explaining what the specialist said to my son.
It will hurt a bit yes but not as much as you think. No your sex drive will not go away but it is advised not to have sex until fully healed.
2007-05-21 04:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♪¥Nicole¥♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think you would lose your sex drive? If you are having discomfort then you sex life is already being affected. Check out your options with your Dr. Lots of circumcised men around having great sex, maybe talk to some of them as well and see what they have to say.
2007-05-21 04:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by TCubed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my understanding it would not impact your sex drive at all. You should definitely consult with an experienced surgeon. As with any surgery you need a skilled surgeon and you know it will be painful for a few days while healing but after that you should be fine and raring to go! Obviously it is a little easier with infants and the tip of your penis may need to become desensitized for a few days after the surgery. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-05-21 04:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone want to be circumsized?Yes,initially it can be painful at first,but in time the pain will abate.Circumsition has no medical,sexual or health benefits-its a lie perpertrated by the Kellogg brothers-yes the guys who make the rice crispies...for more details check out Penn and Teller's Bullshit series on circumsition.I am NOT circumsized and my wife agrees that she does NOT want me to be.Hope this helps
2007-05-21 04:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lack of circumcision shouldn't make sex painful. Nerves would be more tender, but that should just make it more stimulating, not painful. Check with your doctor.
2007-05-21 04:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Patsy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who went through this. He inquired on getting it done at 25 and the DR. told him it would be very painful and take a while to be ready to roll... he decided he'd rather continue getting laid. his wife doesn't mind either so it turned out OK.
2007-05-21 04:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not believe that it is always [very] painful. It is done under local anaesthetic and takes perhaps 20 minutes.
It will be a bit bruised but easily treated with normal painkillers
back to normal in 2 weeks..
2007-05-21 08:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Davy B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if there is a serious MEDICAL reason. No doctor will do it just for the sake of it.
(I know I've asked my own medic not a long time ago).
2007-05-21 06:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by jacquesh2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋