How can you know if you are a bi?

Question

or a lesbian.....
do you just know or does it take longer to work out??

Answer 1

there is a God that made us male of female-there are deamons-bringing desires to confuse us
what helped me to know what I am is=good point-and proof its not in the genes its in the jeans a choice

what helped me get delivered=there is an answer to your question -and as with me once -there is pride some call it gay pride-yet goes beyond to demanding approval here-did they ever hear of salvation-the answer to your question, not religion -salvation-I like your honesty too.
this came from another question but it has the answer for you.

If you lead a perfect life and tell one lie-no matter how much good you do you have sinned against Jesus-if you lead 100 elderly ladies across the street-they will say how wonderful you are, but if you knock one down and let her get hit by a car-you go to jail-the good doesnt out weight the bad.

Jesus said except you repent and be born again you can not see the kingdom of heaven. John 3 & if you keep the whole law and break it in one point you have broken the law.

be carefull about this-satan comes as a creature of light to decieve destroy and kill-if you know your going to die or someone does they should serve Jesus even more till that day.

and praying for you from the question you withdrew-about what your going through

this may inspire you too=truely I am sorry for things I have done in the past living in sin. Yet today I am living my life dream-traveling sharing the gospel in Russia, Israel and more and living in the joy of Jesus salvation,
If I wasnt living this new life -I would regret what i never did because I had money as a rich Jewish guy, but was so empty I was going to commit suicide -money couldnt buy me happiness.

So I say they are equal as to what I would rather.

and this is what helped me to see the things to regret and how not to regret them anymore and live my life dream every day=some issues

this is dealing with these issues, and salvation is the answer to self confidence and marriage-never give up-I
this helped me alot too in this area=Romans 1 Some are unthankful to God and worship the created instead of the creator and are turned over to a reprobate mind to do what is unseamly.
Ist Corinthians gives the answer to blind people too-"And such WERE some of you, but you have been cleansed by the blood of Jesus.

"For by grace are you saved through faith, it is the gift of God not of works lest anyone should boast." Ephesians 2:8&9

JESUS IS RIGHT!

WE HAVE to bring salvation by Jesus the Lord our Tzedak =The Lord is our righteousness
Isaiah 53 explains how the Lord becomes our righteousness

at the destruction of the temple Jesus had already given the sacrifice of blood for sin
Moses explained "The life of the flesh is in the blood and I have given it upon the altar to make atonement for your souls." Leviticus 17:11
believe Moses and the promised Messiah
atonement
it is helping people of their faith and can also be used though rarely to help people that personally know the religious people's Messiah Jesus.

because they love the Messiah Jesus and all others.

Isaiah 9:6 "Unto us a child is born a son is given, and he will be almighty GOD, and the Prince of Peace."

Isaiah 52:13-53:12 states "He shall lay down his life to make atonement for our sins."

thus we get to chose our life style with power to live right from a Messiah that will save us and be our best friend, and helping others, or helping others to be our own savior thinking we are earning our way to heaven.

praying for you and best wishes too that you stand up for what Jesus would rather do too-live and help others to live and you will be a victor going through life - peace-David

a woman said they are hypocrites, well I would rather be in a group with hypocrites than go to hell tormented forever gnashing teeth, weeping forever for rejecting salvation-Revelation 19-22nd chapters and heavens joy is described there too.

In hell do you want your forever weeping to be with the words-I wouldnt listen-they were so wrong-while you see the wrong ones near you gnashing their teeth too

a hug to you friend and again my prayers too

Answer 2

If you find that you physically attracted to both males and females then you are bi-sexual, if you are only physically attracted to females then you are a lesbian. How you choose to live is a different matter all together.

There are many, I believe, who find themselves attracted to both genders, but usually with stronger leanings toward one over the other. Again, it may come down to what feels best for you. Unfortunately, in most societies, it is easier to be heterosexual, so many bi-sexuals choose to live heterosexually. There is also a fair amount discrimination against bi-sexuals in the gay community because they are seen as those "not brave enough" to be true to themselves.

I say be who you are... just be honest with yourself and whomever you chose as a partner. And, most importantly, be safe regardless of how you choose to live.

Answer 3

If you are a lesbian you will find only woman attractive and have sexual realtiosnhisps with woman, if you are bi you will have sex with both men and woman.

I consider myself to be straight, however I do appreciate an atrractive woman and if I was a lesbian I'd have a particular "taste", for example Liv Tyler is just hot and I have openly told my bf if I was that way inclined I'd make sure I had LOTS of fun with her, my bf is OK with this too, as long as he can watch.

Sexuality is a strange thing, you will find your way, just make sure you have fun along the way!!!!

Answer 4

how to know?

u walk into a mall full of crowds and people..just see if u just look to hott girl or both hot girls and hot guys...

some girls tht are bi will eventually turn to lesbian if they have their girl on girl relationship going..some will stay bi if they are in the middle and still have their conscience.

Answer 5

If a guy and girl turns you on sexually then you are bi.

If only a girl does it then you are a lesbian.

If only a guy does it then you are straight.

If neither does it then you are numb.

It may take you a while to realize your true feelings. No reason to rush it.

Good luck.

Answer 6

well i am a bi man and i really always knew it but i think i suppressed it some. i am 31 and very happy with my sexuality. you really kinda know i believe but all i can tell ya is test and see for sure.

Answer 7

Sexually attracted to women = lesbian

Sexually attracted to men = straight

Sexually attracted to both = bi


Wow! It really IS rocket science!!!
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