Or do you think she would get tired of being with a woman and go to a man for sex.
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2007-05-20 16:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by hotttlikeeefirrrrrre 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am lesbian and my gurlfriend is bisexual! Do you think this relationship will work?
2007-05-20 16:59:20 · update #1
ABSOLUTELY!!!
As living proof..I can say that in the ten years plus that my partner and I have been together, I have never once cheated on her. I have never once lied to her.
I have never once regretted my being with her.
But I speak as a True Bisexual as well as a Faithful Monogamist.
I am bisexual, I have had previous relationships with both men and women..but never once have I cheated on any partner.
The whole myth about bisexuals not being able to be faithful or they just claim to be bisexual as an experiment really bugs the heck out of me. I'm not greedy, I am not indecisive, I am not running from relationships with men.
I am truly able to be attracted to both males and females and have been happily in love with my partner for more than ten years.
I choose to stay because I love her. I choose to stay because I choose to be faithful.
Our relationship is not a replacement for a man, it's not something based on sex or experimentation.
Our relationship is based on love, honesty, trust and communication.
2007-05-20 17:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's just bullsh*t. I can't believe that people are into such denial that they will accept such sweeping generalizations. First of all, I am compelled to point out that Bisexuality exsists. No, I am not bisexual, I am a lesbian...but I have several bisexual friends. When a gay person says "Oh, bisexuality doesn't exsist" it reminds me soooo much of straight people saying "oh, you're not gay. It's just a phase!" Second of all, why COULDN'T a bisexual woman be faithful in a long term relationship to a woman? Can one lesbian be faithful to another for the long term? Of course. Are they always? No. Just because we're gay or lesbian doesn't mean we don't have cheats in our midst. Third of all, why should it freaking matter if she's bisexual or lesbian at all? Obviously, if it's a long term relationship, then both parties must love eachother and I'm so sick of people putting conditions on love.
2016-05-22 15:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer. Yes.
That being said, long term relationships are hard for anybody. I think it depends on the readiness of the individuals and the compatibility of the couple. Maybe you should talk to your partner about your hesitation around her commitment.
Things you might want to think about: Has she been in a long-term relationship before? Is she looking for a long-term relationship? How comfortable is your partner with her sexuality? Has she been in a long-term relationship with another women? Is she out to her family and friends?
I have dated two bisexual women, but both relationships ended quickly. They were in their early 20s and exploring themselves, including their sexuality. In addition, since they could date guys they had a lot of pressure on them from friends and family to be straight. Both are still bisexual. One is dating a man, and I am not sure about the other one.
I chalk it up to young love and long-term incompatibility. However, I think the pressure from friends in family did not help.
2007-05-20 17:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Julia H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a bisexual woman in a happy marriage to a man. I don't get restless for someone else for sex, whether male or female.
Look at it this way:
Say a man is attracted to blonds and red-heads. Could he have a happy, long-term relationship with a blond without getting restless for a red-head? Of course!
With men, women, straight, gay, bi, whatever, it all depends on the individual and whether he/she has straying tenancies.
Good luck to you!
2007-05-20 17:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she truely is bisexual she can have a long term relationship with both men and women. Hence the bi. The stereotypes aren't always true.
2007-05-20 19:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by nothingbutme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it can happen. My girlfriend is a lesbian and Im bi. I wouldnt dare cheat on my girlfriend with another woman on man. I love my girl to death. But it also depends on the person. You should trust your girlfriend that she wont cheat on you. But yes I believe it can work. Cause I want to live the rest of my life with her.
2007-05-20 18:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm gay and married and I see attractive men on the street all day. That doesn't mean that I'm trying to get them in bed. I have made my choice. Anyone can make a choice and stick with it if they want.
2007-05-20 17:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that bisexual women have a hard time to keep to one sex because they normally prefer different aspects of a man and a woman so she might get bored with women aspects that cheat with a man.
2007-05-20 17:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I'm still trying to figure that one out myself. All the experiences with bi's that i had were wishy-washy and wanted me then a man and then wanted me again so honestly i am not sure.
2007-05-20 17:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you still remained to think/feel as though you are still bi-sexual, then no.....If you look at it as you are completely lesbian now.....then yes...Which are you?
2007-05-20 16:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋