Ok i am 16 Years old and i am in love.Well my boyfriend and i have been trying to get PREGNANT and i am about to have a ring on my Finger.well yea we are in love.well i think i might be because i was supoust to start on 4/25/07 but i did not and here it is 5/20/07 i took a 4 test 2 came up no and 2 did not show up all the way.Ok where should i start?ok and on top of all that my boobs are so sore but its just the nipples my boobs are geting biger and the things around my nipples are alot biger.i am more tired the ever i keep geting lower back pain.like today i eat fish and felt sick and verry tired and dizzey.i keep haveing dreams that i am like i had on just lastnight thats i took a test and it said that i was.i mix weared food together i all ways want milk . and alot of other things but i have to get off here sorry people please help me..
2007-05-20 16:49:15 · 19 answers · asked by omgbabe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Like anyone here can help you now.. it's too late to strap your legs together with virtual duct tape.
2007-05-20 16:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My achey boobs were my first indication that I was pregnant. So between that and your late period, I'd suggest you cart yourself off to the ol' Planned Parenthood and take reliable pregnancy test. I didn't experience the rest of those symptoms until later in my prengancy.
If your test comes back negative, then for the love of God, wait to get pregnant! I also am very much in love (with my husband), but as endearing as that its, it doesn't make motherhood any easier. I'm 30 years old and just had my 1st baby. And the reason I just had my first baby is because I've spent the last 15 years doing what I wanted to do, when I wanted to do it...going shopping with the girls...going camping with my friends....going clubbing at 21....parties in college....I went to Europe...finished school....got a degree....spend entire days at the beach. You can't do those things when you have a baby. These days, I can't even go to the grocery store or the Starbucks drive thru without a crying baby or obtaining a sitter. Can you afford a sitter...and for that matter, daycare? If you haven't looked into the cost of daycare, you should....and then imagine what kind of car, vacation, or wardrobe that would buy. Then factor in stretch marks, saggy boobs, back pain, labor pain (oh, the pain!), scarring...and thats a pregnancy without complications. I love my baby very much, but being a parent is HARD! I don't feel resentful because I took the time to do all the things I wanted to do before I became a mom. I couldn't imagine trying to do this even 5 years ago, let alone at 16.
2007-05-21 00:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by EB 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie Dear. I don't think your pregnant and thank god for it. First I will explain what might be going on in your body. You may want so bad to be pregnant and think that you are so bad that your body wants to believe it too. If you stop thinking that your pregnant your symtoms might stop if not then i'd go to a doctor and have him check it out. If ablood test comes up negative then ur not pregnant. If you arn't pregnant please sweetie I beg of you to stop trying. I think you need to talk to your mom and dad about your feelings on what you want. I have to tell u when I was your age I thought I was in love with a guy we had unprotected sex and i thought o well if I get pregnant he loves me and we will be fine but like you I was wrong. I did get pregnant It was a hard battle I have a beautiful 4 year old and I couldn't think of my life with out her but sometimes I wonder like most single teen moms what if I hadn't gotten pregnant would life be different. The father of my girl is an a** and never sees her but 3 times a year. I know you are in love now and maybe that love will last but kids make life hard they are not an easy way out. I hope that my words are being listen to by at least some teen out there who is trying to get pregnant. I am in college getting a social work degree so that I can show teens that getting pregnant so young is not a good idea and if it does happen then YES there is a future for you life does go and will go on. Please my dear u have a whole future ahead of you so go see a doctor or go to plan parenthood have a blood test done and have them talk to you about birth control and listen plan parenthood will give birth control out on a slidding scale. You could even ask your boyfriend to go with you. I think this would be a grand idea if you feel comfortable. If he doesn't want to go or you don't feel comfortable then I take that as a real sign that its not something you want.
2007-05-21 00:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by anglzndskyz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eek trying to get pregnant at 16! Wow! Well if thats what you want who is anyone to judge. If you are not getting the answers you want from the at home tests hit up the free clinic. There are a lot of other things that could be going on with those symptoms and wouldn't want to speculate as I am no Doctor. Good luck in any case.
2007-05-20 23:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I did not know I was pregnant everytime I ate I felt SOOO sick and I would wake up at 2:30am about everynight crying because I always felt like i would throw up, My boobs got BIG and had STRECH marks on them when i was only 6-8weeks! but my back didnt start hurting until just now and i am now 16weeks!
I am 19years old and I thought I was "IN Love" but right when my boyfriend of 3years found out I was pregnant he was first soo HAPPY and now that I am 4months he broke up with me and is not talking to me!
Please! If you are not pregnant make sure your boyfriend will be there for you because it's not pretty when they leave you and you are stressed out! And I been going out with him for 3years and a half so I know!
I will pray for you*God Bless!
2007-05-21 00:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie Russell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why in the world you would want to get pregnant at 16 years old. you can't even support yourself and it will be hard for you to get a real job without graduating high school first. but, you didn't say how old your boyfriend is. so, i can't judge that's god's job. you are having pregnancy signs. if you don't get your period soon, and keeping having these signs you need to take another pregnancy test either at home or go to the doctor. good luck
2007-05-20 23:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldnt have lower backpain until a few months into pregnancy, because your back hurts from having a big belly.
Also, some of the symptoms sound right.
And since the test said you were, go to the doctors to get a blood test to make sure you really are.
Good luck
2007-05-20 23:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first of all, that sounds like some of the symptoms of being pregnant. I've personally never had a baby but, you are pretty young...Are you sure that you thought this through good enough? I hope that your man will stick beside you no matter what happens and the best of luck to you.
2007-05-20 23:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have a kid when YOU are the kid still. I feel bad for the kid, what can you teach or give to that baby when you have nothing to show for yourself, a house, a car, a stable life time job, a husband? Nope nothing. Although you amuse yourself in saying your 'in love' and are TRYINGon getting a ring. YOU DONT GOT 1. Case closed. You ruined your life, but hopefully not the baby your brining into this world.
2007-05-21 00:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why, at age 16, would you try and get pregnant. That is so ridiculous. I hope you are not pregnant. You should finish school, go to college if you want to, get married and be stable financially. At 16 your brain isn't done developing. Having a baby isn't all fun and games, it's really hard work.
2007-05-20 23:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all you wouldn't be having back pain already and your nipples wouldn't be getting bigger yet. But you probably are pregnant which is incredibly stupid on your part. Thats whats wrong with the world today! Kids are just stupid!
2007-05-20 23:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by rachael g 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋