I was hoping to have more advice on this. i am 23. i never had a relationship or even a real-life genuine friend. So, I currently have no in-person friends. I never went on a date or had my first kiss. I never even held hands. I never went to a prom, homecoming dance or a winter formal. I never went to the party or over the house of someone of the opposite gender. I am not sure why this happened. how do you feel about this?
2007-05-20 13:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I can't answer the "why" part without really knowing you in person, but hope this might help: try to really go out of your way to do one good thing for another person around you a week. It's ok to be shy or have other shortcomings - who is perfect anyways? But if you are a nice kid, there are enough nice people in this world who will reciprocate by wanting to spend more time with you. Good luck!
2007-05-20 16:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really shy and come off as stuck up?
You should join some activity or club where you can meet other people. Try talking to people gradually until you get comfortable. Then ask them if they'd like to go somewhere for coffee afterwards.
If you have a dog, take it to a dog park - easy icebreaker, people love dogs.
2007-05-20 13:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by ahelaumakani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be able to help with this if i really knew your background.
it could have a lot to do with your parents and your relationships with them.
it could have to do with you just being naturally shy or uncomfortable around people, or more specifically, the opposite sex.
if you have any negative thoughts about yourself, try clearing them out of your head and actually attending a party or somewhere where you could make new friends and talk to people.
2007-05-20 13:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh...how sad. maybe you appear to be above others? maybe you should look at yourself the way that others percieve you. do you look like a loner? try to be friendly and approachable and eventually you will find friends...maybe on a online group? just type stuff into google and see what comes up for groups. also possibly eharmony? i knowlots of people that tthis has worked for
2007-05-20 13:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by georgeonfridays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be you friend ^_^ but mabey you dont reach out to people enough, Many people are shy, Just start being more open and helpful. flirt a little to get that special some one
2007-05-20 13:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by ஐKatஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahelauma is right, try the dog thing aslo if your really shy or come off as stuck up then people will think your unapproachable so try approaching others and being more open.
goodluck
2007-05-20 14:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, don't wait for someone to come your way. you have to make relationships/friendships yourself. go out and be social!! people like to meet new people, so go out there and have fun. join a club, find a job that you like, go to parties, flirt (!), anything that will make you more social.
2007-05-20 13:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel except for i am only 16....but i dont think that it is going to change.....try to get yourself out there a little more...withought changeing who you really are...and just know that God will send you somebody if u wait paciently and honor him..and if you don than that might be one of the reasons....idk...
in God, kaley h
2007-05-20 16:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by kaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you mingle and socialize?If not that could be your number one problem...and a combination of other things.
2007-05-20 13:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the $ on the bedstand n u can party like everyone else
2007-05-20 13:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋