He disappears supposedly to 'work' but he always manages to makes tons of new friends on myspace, overdrafts our bank account using my paychecks, I know he cheats on me during these time periods, but then he comes back and spends tons of time with me and his son and promises to love us and that nothing happened while he was gone. I really don't know what to think and I don't know if I can live my life like this forever. Everytime he comes back, he promises he will never leave again. Should I give him another chance?
2007-05-20 12:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Candy H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
awhh hunni.. i know someone who is going through the exact same problem .. and let me tell you whats going to happen .. if this isnt the first time he has done this then it is bound to happen again it seems like you might love him i dont know but it doesnt seem he loves you if he has to go out and cheat on you. one you dont deserve this and two neither does his son. he should be setting a example for his son and what he is settingis horrible. if you dont want to be hurt i would keep my distance for a little while maybe things will work out in the future maybe not. good luck
2007-05-20 12:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually a womans first intuition is always right. You say you know that he is cheating so why are you sitting around letting him?? As long as you keep taking him back and believing his every word then he is never going to change. You have to show a man that you will not allow them to disrespect you and you won't be walked over. If you really want him, leave him alone. Give him the space that he craves and when he sees that you and your child isn't their he'll go crazy and come back. You can't make yourself too available to him. Act like you have someone else and you don't have time for him. Men think that a relationship is a game so you have to play it with them. The one thing they don't like is change.
2007-05-20 12:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would tell him how i felt. You shouldn't be put through that. If he dissapears for month all the time then comes back and tells you he will never do it again and then goes out and does it. Then he isnt faithful to you. You should approach the matter and tell him when your in a relationship you shouldnt have to leave the person your with or when they do leave offer for you to go with them. I wish you luck.
2007-05-20 12:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to live like that and your son shouldn't have to wonder when is daddy coming home. You deserve so much better.
He should not be out there spending the money that you and your son need on other women. You need to let go.
2007-05-20 12:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost get separate accounts and make sure he has no access to yours - EVER. Then if he really loves you he will give you access to his. If you find he wont' stay unless you pay you know what you really mean to him. Sorry. Let go and move on to a better life. Good luck!
2007-05-20 12:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. Your woman's intuition tells you he's cheating then more than likely he is. Haven't you heard of STD's? He could be on drugs or anything spending your money like that. But as long as you allow it he will do it~cause he can, and you'll be right there.
2007-05-20 12:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by BossLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to tell u the true u are crazy for keep on beliving him if he keep on leaving and u lrt him coming back ever time u need to show him u can do bad all by your self
2007-05-20 12:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by mee_blackdiamond202 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave his *** right now he lien to you he runen games on you girl you should make a fake profile on myspace and emails messages
2007-05-20 12:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by CherryGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right?
2007-05-20 12:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by ems2000tab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋