I have never met this girl but I guess he told her about me and she flipped out and said he could not talk to me anymore. We are still very good friends and hang out. He just lies to her about who he is with. I feel bad, what should I do???
2007-05-20 11:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk about it and see if you could all hang out in a group, that way she can get to know you better and feel less threatened.
2007-05-20 11:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not fair for her to judge and hate you when she has never even met you. why does she hate you anyway? is she jealous, or is it how he talked about you. a true friend wouldn't imply anything horrible about another friend, so if your sure he wouldn't do that then she is a controlling girlfriend, which isn't something that he should be dealing with. at the same time it's really not your decision to be telling him what to do and who to be with. all you can do is suggest for the three of you to get together so she can get to know you as a person, and have to take it from there. you probably feel bad because your a decent guy and know that it's wrong that he is lying to his girlfriend. its not your problem. don'f feel bad. i hope that you can all get together and get along. good luck!
2007-05-20 18:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same trouble. I've Met her though, that didn't go very well. We hate each other very much. She hates me because I like her boyfriend a lot. We get in to stupid fights. I think you need to tell your friend that you want to meet his girlfriend so you guys can get to know each other more, that way she cant just say she hates you without knowing who you are. If she still hates you just because you and her boyfriend are friends then you need to talk to your friend about the situation.
2007-05-20 18:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend that you don't want to get in the middle of it. Also, she is just jealous and possesive of your friend. Maybe your friend should reconsider being with her, sounds like she is making him "choose" between the two of you. Or if you don't think he will break up with her, maybe arrange for the three of you to get together to clear the air. Lies are never good, and your freinds relationship isn't going to work out with all of the lying going on...
2007-05-20 18:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u have 2 feel bad . if u really appreciate ur freind try 2 b freind with his gf .but not a women in z worl accept 2 share her bf with some body else and ur freind is lying cause he has something 2 hid so just try 2 be at z place of this girl will u appreciate this situation?????
2007-05-20 18:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to hang out with him you just hang out with him and dont worry about it. Watch out though because girlfriends can get nasty and she might be a jerk and want to try and fight you. I mean she sounds immature enough to want to do that.
2007-05-20 18:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by ljomcginnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch him. He obviously doesn't care about her feelings or yours. If you keep hanging with him and she finds out, he will most likely blame you for it. Talk to him when he gets his priorities straight.
2007-05-20 18:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend, that's not someones boyfriend.
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2007-05-20 18:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to tell him who to hang out with.And why should you feel bad?
2007-05-20 18:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by evil mushroom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋