Do you put up walls, as a defense mechanism?...is it hard to break these walls down once you have built them up?
2007-05-20 09:03:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Insulting me or my intelligence isn't going to work. Being civil and behaving like an adult usually does. We all have walls in place due to various traumas that were real or imagined. I like to think of these as rooms instead of walls. Some rooms can be opened and some stay locked.
2007-05-20 09:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no... Yes, walls do go up especially when you have been hurt or burned. For me, when I don't think that I have walls but everyone has them. It's you who controls the walls and how much you will be willing to lower them. When it comes to love, it takes a better person, a patient one to try to break down the walls you have put up. Honesty always works between partners and making the other one know why and how you have these walls up... I don't normally put up walls when it comes to friends, but with love I have walls.
2007-05-20 09:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by JB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very much so. I think most people have walls some more penetrable than others, but mine are quite sturdy and once the wall is there, it is nearly impossible to break it down.
2007-05-20 09:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!! Yo Rebellious Honey!! Come to Dovey/Whomever and Tell Me What You Have Been Up To!! I try to catch you but you are too slippery. What is the ques.........to get through to me?? No Walls Honey. I am Right Here for Life (cause I can Just Tell okay??) I will be here until my hair turns grey and Everything starts to Sag. HELLO!! I AM ADDICTED TO YEEHOO ANSWERS!!! @80) hush about my smiley
2007-05-20 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do... i think majority of people who do had some sort of abuse while growing up.. like myself.
i've been in a steady relationship for 6 years and am still trying to break some of them down.. so yes it is very hard to break them down once there up.
2007-05-20 09:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by kazee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to me like an adult,don't start yelling you'll never get through I'll just stop listening(men can have selective hearing too)
2007-05-20 09:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tazz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually you only have to be honest and open... and I'll be the same. I only build walls when I get insecure about people
2007-05-20 19:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♠αβsįŋŧħe♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I will admit that I do that. But for certain people I lower them, and you would sure be one of them dear.
2007-05-20 09:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am completely and utterly numb. no joke. i am now untouchable. its got its pros and cons. on one hand i cant be hurt on the other its hard to even feel love and care for anyone
2007-05-20 09:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pay visits to my 360 leave comments on what you see there:simple hey:i have no walls.Not them stupid quickcomments.
Sky
2007-05-20 09:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋