2007-05-20 08:51:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well,, since you included so many details,, something tells me you already know the answer,, you are just looking for verification.
2007-05-20 08:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by FARRAR P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't imagine you EVER meeting a guy who doesn't have his not so wonderful moments. Now look at what you said.....you want to know if you should stay with a guy who is USUALLY great but isn't so wonderful at times. I'd be more concerned if you had said "should I stay with a guy who is USUALLY not so wonderful but is great at times. You need to go find a quiet corner somewhere and just think about your relationship. Think about all the good things about it and then think about the bad things. If the bad outweighs the good then you know what to do. However you gotta remember a relationship comes with the bad and the good you just have to decide if the good that you have is worth the price of having some of those not so good times that come with it. Besides having a little bit of bad thrown in (so long as it's not too bad) can only make you appreciate the good that much more:)
2007-05-20 15:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really the choice is up to you, do you allow a few things that may or may not be related to you, make you question what is obviously a good relationship. As long as he is not abusive towards you on the "not so great days" what's the problem. Everybody has bad days sometimes, it's just life, so if there really isn't a problem there, don't go looking for one. I think you'll be fine and we he is having a bad day, give him some space, and don't take it personal. I'm sure he'll tell you what's bothering him, if you give it time.
2007-05-20 16:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by 3dexplorer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the full meaning of 'usually great' & 'not so wonderful at times'
Also depends on how long you've been together. How well you actually know him. And the manner of which you communicate together.
Keep your eyes open. If these are items of concern for you, it may be time to STRONGLY heed these red flags.
Please also keep in mind that he is able to pack just as easily as you.
2007-05-20 15:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack - He will not change. The wonderful times are a form of manipulation. The bad times is the real man. Good men do not have not so wonderful times.
2007-05-20 16:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their off moments, for example are you always the nicest person. Part of being indiviauls in a relationship is accepting the other person for the good and bad, not running away from it. Like I said are you always wonderful or do you have some off time too?
2007-05-20 18:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by jesctdrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the same way? Sometimes good but not always? Sound like you need to grow up and work on your relationship - compromises, patience, understanding, support - don't you love him? Does he love you? You ought to try some counselling - does he see a problem too? Or are you just looking for an excuse to get out and move on? Sounds like YOU might be the one with the problem - no?
2007-05-20 16:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say he's great. What else do u want. There's no perfect man on earth and you know, the devil u know is better than the saint u don't.
Why do u want to pack?
2007-05-20 16:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by sholly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what is the bad times like?? I mean everyone isnt great all the time. Like my husband is great supporter, good dad, and loves me, but he gets mad at times. Like the kids are to loud while he is on the phone or like when he is taking a shower and I forgot to get soap.
2007-05-20 16:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is great at times but not at others then it is up to you. If he is abusive at all though you need to leave.
If he is just attitudnal at times then that is normal so you decide and go from there.
2007-05-20 15:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by ldwickw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man was just like that i swear he had some kind of issue he was always like fine with me then it would all change. It all depends how you feel with that guy you could never get back if you leave him soo it all depends do you have more good times then bad?
2007-05-20 15:56:15 · answer #11 · answered by x0LBaBy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋