Have you ever purposely avoided a man you were attracted to because either you or him were unavailable. If so, are you glad you did. Is that the best thing to do?
2007-05-20 08:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes on all three
2007-05-20 10:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you or the guys you are attracted to is unavailable, then stay away... meaning married! But if you are dating someone, the best thing to do is tell your partner that you want to take a break... If you are attracted to someone else and not married, you should leave your options open and find the best partner for you... Don't settle... it's not fair to you nor to your partner.
Good Luck
Sa
2007-05-20 15:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Oula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i have not! that was the beginning of all my troubles. i think the answer to your question is yes, that is the best thing to do if you are attracted to another man but one of you were unavailable.
2007-05-20 15:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Fizzy Fizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to get attracted to someone from the opposite sex, even if you are married. But to protect the relationship you have, you have to walk away from those temptations.
I am glad I did. And I am glad for the deep and harmonious relationship I have with my husband.
2007-05-20 15:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by pinkrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. i pursued it and made a complete fool of myself. And let me tell you the attraction can only take you so far anyway. Find someone else attactive to invest yourself in. If he wanted to be with he'd be with you and not her. The truth hurts but it has to be said otherwise you waste 6 months of your life chasing a life you're never meant to have. Life isn't like it is in the movies.
2007-05-20 15:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Monie Balonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's the best answer. If he's unavailable or you are, then that's that. Wait until you're both available or forget it.
2007-05-20 15:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all according to a situation. If you are taken and you love the person you are with then purposely avoid this person unless you are willing to give up the person and the relationship you have or visaversca.
2007-05-20 15:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO . If your attracted to that someone then the someone your with probally isn't right for you. But be careful some women will be turned off big time by a guy who has someone but is willing to mess/ flirt around with them .... If a guy is will to cheat on his girl what would he do to you ? think about it
2007-05-20 15:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by x0LBaBy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,at many occasions,and I'm thankful to the state of mind that allowed me that reaction very glad! otherwise, that could destroy whole families and many problems
2007-05-20 15:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I didn't want to give him any funny ideas about me and it was best to just walk away and not even go there.
2007-05-20 15:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋