I have just found out my boyfrient smokes marijuana!!!
In fact i do not know what to do and what to say him about it?
Girls, have you had such a situation? What to say for him to drop it?
Which arguments? Can ANYTHING help?
2007-05-20 08:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by La Tanya 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Relax. Most people who smoke pot need to. Not because of being hooked or any of that crap, but to stay balanced, as expensive prescriptions do for pain, anxiety, and other conditions.
Should be legal.
Don't worry, and maybe give it a try or two. As long as it doesn't cause strife, let it be.
2007-05-21 14:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by hcw_07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably nothing you can say that will make him quit. If he really wants to smoke marijuana, he will find a way to do it. You will not change him. You have to ask yourself if you will accept this behavior or not. If you find smoking marijuana unacceptable, you should end the relationship and move on.
2007-05-20 08:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should calm down. My boyfriend smokes practically everyday, and although i do it on occasion, I wish he would stop. You should sit down and talk to him. How long has he been your boyfriend? ask him why he didnt tell you to begin with. If its only an occasional thing dont make a bigger deal out of it then it is. What you have to understand is that you are with him for who he is, not for who he could eb or what you could make him into...so if its a big problem for you then end the relationship but dont try to change him.
2007-05-20 08:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anything you say will make him quit. Marijuana isnt that bad, so dont freak out. Tell him how you feel. If he respects you he'll at least not do it around you or in your presence. Tell him you dont approve of that, so if he would refrain and only do it in his own time. hes going to do what he wants to do, whether you like it or not, thats just how people are. He's only going to stop if he wants to stop. If he respects you enough then he might quit, thats still on his own accord, you cant make him and if you try to change him, he will resent you, that or lie about it.
2007-05-20 08:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
marijuana smoker = broke loser
You have to decide who you are good enough for. Are you the type of girl who can't get anyone but a pothead, or can you do better than that?
Remember, the longer your with him the more and more people will see you as someone who has a pothead for a boyfriend.
Your never going to change him. He will do it whether your with him or not. If you don't like it, he will find someone who will.
You have to accept it or break up with him, because he's probably not going to quit for you.
2007-05-20 08:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2017-01-10 10:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by gulab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont freak out ok, calm down, just because its ilegal doesnt mean its bad, i base myself on the bible, it doesnt say dont smoke marijuana, and for some reason it was put on earth, and its not like a hard addictive drug anywayz
hope i helped
2007-05-22 14:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hit the blunt a few times, and then ask yourself the same question once again.
2007-05-21 06:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he intends on using just now for expirimentation or if its a long term thing...
then depending on his answer ask yourself if you can deal with that, then make a decision from there...
my fiancee was told right from the begining of our relationship that i smoke...she was cool with it for a while then started giving me crap, which i dont appreciate...we still have issues because of it...
2007-05-20 08:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by ignoramous i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother trying to change him. Date someone that doesn't smoke it if you don't like it. He may never quit.
2007-05-20 08:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by 354gr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋