Just let him take care of his child. Maybe he cheated on you. If he's fathering other kids that means he's not worth being with. He may impregnate you. Leave him and don't worry about dating.
2007-05-20 08:08:59
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answered by Anonymous
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takes 2 to tango here ok, if she slept with him and only met him once can he be sure its his child for starters, when did he find out that she was pregnant was you already together, you also have been together 7 months so he seems to be hanging around, so the question here is, if it is his kid then he has to put up with an immature baby mother from the sounds of it either that or he's been telling her different things, hence why she's mad at you? also its not always necessarily the best thing for him to be with her just cause she's pregnant, she's obviously hating right now cause she's left pregnant an no man, but if it is his then he will always have a tie with this girl, it might get better it might not, you have to ask yourself if you can go through this relationship always being tied to this girl. it will be hard i'm not going to lie but if you and you bf are meant to be together then you'll get thru it ok good luk.
2007-05-20 08:20:40
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answered by DeViL..^--^~~ 4
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Well its going to be baby momma drama when the baby gets here.. ya know? I think he should own up and wait till the baby is due and get a test done just in case. I mean he only slept with the girl one time didn't he? I would talk him into getting a test done when he/she gets here. If y'all have been going out for 7 months and she is due anytime then that means he didn't cheat on you he met her two months before y'all went out so don't worry about that. But good luck and trust me if hes the babies father let him be a father its nothing more sad then a child growing up without a father in their life. If he really has feelings for you and cares about you he will stay with you but you have to understand hes going to have something to do with the other girl because i mean that's his child (take the test!) Ya know? But good luck and i hope things work out for the better!
2007-05-20 10:04:56
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answered by Ashley 3
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You are in a very difficult position! I have known a few people who have been through this and the hardest part about it is the fact that even though the guy may not want a relationship with this girl... He's in one and will be for the next 18-20 years... Good luck honey! It is easy for others to say to get rid of him now, but it is a decsion you need to make for yourself... Personally, I couldn't do it at your age.
2007-05-20 08:12:55
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answered by Stephanie B 5
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Oh please! Dump his prepubescent a~~ and find yourself another. He's 17,and got a girl preggers and he's moved onto you. God knows what he's going to be like when he's in his 20's and has a car and has learned more lines and stories to tell more young girls so he can get a piece, there'll be no stopping him then!!! He may get you preggers and then move onto someone else and then you'll be the girl giving abuse to the new girl. I was pregnant 19 and alone and the guy left me, its not nice so thats why shes lashing out. Move from this dude before its you in her shoes. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!!
2007-05-21 04:30:38
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answered by buff1ne 5
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Remember that if he is a good man, the kind who you should be with, he will want to take care of his baby. It should be an automatic package deal, and if it isn't for him then you should leave before you get pulled further into the mess. That said, mistakes happen and if he is willing to stand by this other woman and help with the baby, and you are willing to let the child be a part of your life too, then by all means stay with him and help him to understand that it is more important to do good than to dwell on our prior indiscretions.
2007-05-20 08:33:11
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answered by disgruntled_gnome72 2
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Dont know how old you are or if this is your first real love etc...and it seems the baby momma drama is the norm... but trust this old fart...it aint!!!! Even at my age l have to remember that l am worth more than some guy who for whatever reason cant stay true to one person and doesnt practice safe sex... If he wants to risk his own health with infections etc then he really doesnt mind doing it to himself... Why would you allow someone to do that to you and your body??? Remember that sex and relationships can be fun... But they also come with responsibility and consequences... sometimes life changing ones.. Good luck hun...
2007-05-21 05:25:24
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answered by brook85d 1
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If I were you I would step back. You are looking for trouble. Granted I've been with my sons father for 4 years and we are expecting number 2 but if another female stepped up whether he left me or not, umm lets just say her car would have no windows, her house would be a pile of ashes on the ground and I would probably break some of her bones right in front of the police station. If they are over they are over thats one thing but if shes not being respectful to you then obviously she has another opinion of how things should go and you could end up right in the middle of it.
2007-05-20 08:15:08
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not worth the heart ache hun. If you are going to stay with him you'll have to accept his baby. If you don't you're not being supportive. If you're not ready for all that move on with your life. You shouldn't have to suffer for his stupid mistake. As for the girl abusing you.....she' immature. She's angry because she's having a baby with someone that has a girlfriend. It's not all her fault though. Remember it takes 2 hun. Think about the baby. Think about yourself. Is he going to be there for the baby? If so and if you decide to stay you should learn to accept the baby and support him. The babies mother is always going to have a problem with you....unless she's matured. Honey, you really need to think about your own future. Good luck =)
2007-05-20 08:12:45
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answered by itsonlyme 2
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2016-11-25 19:12:17
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answered by ? 4
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First off if you really care for him and you feel as if he care for you then you should stick by his side no matter what,
BUT always go with your first instinct because if she is pregnant by him then he has to be in the child life for a LONG time and you need to ask your self "do I want to go through with this?"
and yes it only takes one time to get pregnant so the chances is high.
But I take it your young...... Dont get stressed out at a early age you dont need it.
2007-05-20 08:13:02
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answered by mztymetris 1
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